"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Guys I've got a dilemma, please opinions needed.

I've text a girl am involved with today, a light and fun text, I am seeing her tomorrow night. She replied with

"Today is a very sad day for me, all my efforts and hopes disappeared, no one knows and no one understands... Maybe god want me to suffer this way, want me to punish myself. Don't worry about all I've just said. I hope I will be more happy seeing you tomorrow, I am always happy around you"

What should I say back, give my shoulder? Ignore her text and see her tomorrow. Stay away from her bad time and only associate with fun time?
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Make sure she doesn't uses you as a emotional tampon. Make sure you go with a mind set tommorow and divert her mood according to you.
 
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YAboi said:
Say 'will be great to see you!''
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Great reply, cheers.

thanks for the help guys, I don't want to be use as an emotional tampon either. I have no idea what it's about, should I bring it up at some point tomorrow? like after sex? Or ignore it all together. What if she brings it up and want to confide in me?

In my AFC day I'd have been a white knight! But I am different now, wiser; how best to approach this?
 
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I read Ross jefferies books, he mentions that you should go out with an objective in mind, which he calls as seducers state of mind. You will lead the conversation on how you want it to be. than the chick will follow. Don't bring the topic or her sad day, if she brings talk a little and move to next topic.

Her response was " I am always happy around you"
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Manipulate her emotions through your Energy funnels. You'll have to be very superficially happy to do this (SMILE, LAUGH, JOKE). Know why charismatic people make depressed people feel that little bit better? They are happy, they are transfering their happiness and energy (No i'm not a hippy) through energy funnels, yes a real term used in the Psychological communties.

Do NOT let the conversation stare into a grim one, that will kill this effect completely and will probabley (spelling) bring back her saddness.

I guess role-playing is very good for these types of situations (find out why shes sad). Money issues? 50/50 chance depending on her personality "I'm going to win Lotto this week! We should ________". etc etc; but the added risk of it will bring back her sadness and also kill the effect, but can bring hope, and as humans we cling onto hope. Hope can be the biggest source of happiness so it can amplify the effect to an extreme level.

You might not get laid since this isn't a sexual tool, but will definatly boost your image.
 
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