"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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well im in this relationship with this girl for a month now. and i dont know she's not the very affectionate kind of girl. any way i can get her more affetionate towards me? also, she seems to be testin me. she'll act real mean to me out of no where and i dont know how to respond. one second she'll act like she loves me, and next BAM she doesnt even know me. also, since im in a relationship how should i act to be able to keep her and make this a LTR and not some short park walk.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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frivolousz21

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COOKO COOKO!

its only been 1 month..if she doenst have the QUALITIES and CHEMISTRY that u rarely find in someone then you need to bail..you will fnd someone else.
 
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CraigMack

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Ok, she keeps testing you hoping that you will change and become the man that she needs. Your too soft and whimpy as can be seen by your admitting that you allow her to become mean.

It's probably too late to put her in her place cause you allowed this kind of abuse to go on too long. She will dump you eventually cause your not man enough for her...sorry!

You might try standing up to her next time and being a real man, but unfortunately your whimpy behavior in the past has marked you.


But on the good side of things, you are learning this lesson of not

EVER LETTING A WOMAN TEST YOU, NOR SHOULD YOU EVER SETTLE FOR LESS THAN YOU DESERVE!!!

You also must have some self-esteem issues going on to let a female do this to you. Have you read the bible yet?
 
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Bud, this girl isn't LTR material. But you won't listen, you will have to learn it the hard way in a couple weeks or months...
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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