"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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well im in this relationship with this girl for a month now. and i dont know she's not the very affectionate kind of girl. any way i can get her more affetionate towards me? also, she seems to be testin me. she'll act real mean to me out of no where and i dont know how to respond. one second she'll act like she loves me, and next BAM she doesnt even know me. also, since im in a relationship how should i act to be able to keep her and make this a LTR and not some short park walk.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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COOKO COOKO!

its only been 1 month..if she doenst have the QUALITIES and CHEMISTRY that u rarely find in someone then you need to bail..you will fnd someone else.
 
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Ok, she keeps testing you hoping that you will change and become the man that she needs. Your too soft and whimpy as can be seen by your admitting that you allow her to become mean.

It's probably too late to put her in her place cause you allowed this kind of abuse to go on too long. She will dump you eventually cause your not man enough for her...sorry!

You might try standing up to her next time and being a real man, but unfortunately your whimpy behavior in the past has marked you.


But on the good side of things, you are learning this lesson of not

EVER LETTING A WOMAN TEST YOU, NOR SHOULD YOU EVER SETTLE FOR LESS THAN YOU DESERVE!!!

You also must have some self-esteem issues going on to let a female do this to you. Have you read the bible yet?
 
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Bud, this girl isn't LTR material. But you won't listen, you will have to learn it the hard way in a couple weeks or months...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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