"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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dlin87

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well im in this relationship with this girl for a month now. and i dont know she's not the very affectionate kind of girl. any way i can get her more affetionate towards me? also, she seems to be testin me. she'll act real mean to me out of no where and i dont know how to respond. one second she'll act like she loves me, and next BAM she doesnt even know me. also, since im in a relationship how should i act to be able to keep her and make this a LTR and not some short park walk.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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COOKO COOKO!

its only been 1 month..if she doenst have the QUALITIES and CHEMISTRY that u rarely find in someone then you need to bail..you will fnd someone else.
 
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Ok, she keeps testing you hoping that you will change and become the man that she needs. Your too soft and whimpy as can be seen by your admitting that you allow her to become mean.

It's probably too late to put her in her place cause you allowed this kind of abuse to go on too long. She will dump you eventually cause your not man enough for her...sorry!

You might try standing up to her next time and being a real man, but unfortunately your whimpy behavior in the past has marked you.


But on the good side of things, you are learning this lesson of not

EVER LETTING A WOMAN TEST YOU, NOR SHOULD YOU EVER SETTLE FOR LESS THAN YOU DESERVE!!!

You also must have some self-esteem issues going on to let a female do this to you. Have you read the bible yet?
 
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Bud, this girl isn't LTR material. But you won't listen, you will have to learn it the hard way in a couple weeks or months...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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