"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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[Help] Girl Keeps Callin me

PiMpIn GuY

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Hey guys im writing this post in seek of help.

Ive been flirting with this girl for a while (month?) and i told her my cell phone number, and ive got hers too. I quite certain....so lets say she does like me. The first time she called me was after i told her my cell phone number. Next she called me like a day after the next, then she called me again the next day, and called me again the day after that. I've done plenty of kino when i see her (minimum 2 times a week 'i see her' so far - shes not in my school) and i try to avoid talking to her on msn, and talked to her on cell phone for less than 5 min. Im doing this so that when i actually see her i can do kino and talk to her face to face instead of just tlaking to her on msn and makin dumb happy faces etc. Also, i haven't called her before, and whenever im on msn and shes on too...shes the one who always says hi first.

So anyways....she calls me a lot now to talk to me when shes bored. Ive read about how guys shouldnt calls girls everyday, and that you shouldnt call girls right after a date, but this time its the opposite, i havent even called her before. So anyways shes an 8 ('rating an 8, not age 8' - fine with me lol) and i gotta know how to deal with this...because i know talkin on the phone too much/too long isnt good.

PS I've been pretending to be busy, i try to keep the conv less than 5 min and it has been less than 5 min (all of them).

Guys plz help me

Oh yeah, and i do like this person!! ITs not like i dont want her to call me, but i know that if this continues shell lose interest in me
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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PiMpIn GuY

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dam ppl.....help me!! i really need help on this one guyz.....
Any advice or any little tip could help me, plz post SOMETHIGN!
 

PiMpIn GuY

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yeah i thought about not pickin up, but that might cause her to think i dont like her or something....but thx for the tip! anyone else?
 

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Turn your cell phone off unless you want to talk to somebody.

And chill... if you're unavailable half the time, her interest should go up, not down. If it does go down, she's a stinking attention wh0re.

BGMan
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Set your phone to put a specific ring on when its her number and answer it when you like to.
 

crackhead

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howbout stick your **** in her crotch


damn man, 15?? that sounds normal for girls to be extra chatty and calling you all the time

she likes you

and she's an 8

make your move

i wish this site existed when i was 15
 

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You might try either going out on a date, in which case she would be more confident about what stage your relationship is in, or you could confront her about the constant messages.

It's better for her to learn early that no one should be that needy so that when she's 5 years older and meets another great guy (like me ;) she knows how to act
 

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Yeah, if you not answering your phone once is enough to make her think you don't like her anymore, you need to rethink you're "I'm appearing to be busy and have a life" impression, because it's not working.
 

PiMpIn GuY

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i might be gettin this the wrong way but i do like her!

its not like i want to tell her that i dont like her, its jus that i wanna show her that i have a life (a fake one) i dont mind her callin me once in a while tho
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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PiMpIn GuY

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Yeah, if you not answering your phone once is enough to make her think you don't like her anymore, you need to rethink you're "I'm appearing to be busy and have a life" impression, because it's not working.
i might be gettin this the wrong way but i do like her!

its not like i want to tell her that i dont like her, its jus that i wanna show her that i have a life (a fake one) i dont mind her callin me once in a while tho
hahhah whoops i quoted myslef...sry for the double post......dont read this stupid post!! lol
 
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