"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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[Help] Girl Keeps Callin me

PiMpIn GuY

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Hey guys im writing this post in seek of help.

Ive been flirting with this girl for a while (month?) and i told her my cell phone number, and ive got hers too. I quite certain....so lets say she does like me. The first time she called me was after i told her my cell phone number. Next she called me like a day after the next, then she called me again the next day, and called me again the day after that. I've done plenty of kino when i see her (minimum 2 times a week 'i see her' so far - shes not in my school) and i try to avoid talking to her on msn, and talked to her on cell phone for less than 5 min. Im doing this so that when i actually see her i can do kino and talk to her face to face instead of just tlaking to her on msn and makin dumb happy faces etc. Also, i haven't called her before, and whenever im on msn and shes on too...shes the one who always says hi first.

So anyways....she calls me a lot now to talk to me when shes bored. Ive read about how guys shouldnt calls girls everyday, and that you shouldnt call girls right after a date, but this time its the opposite, i havent even called her before. So anyways shes an 8 ('rating an 8, not age 8' - fine with me lol) and i gotta know how to deal with this...because i know talkin on the phone too much/too long isnt good.

PS I've been pretending to be busy, i try to keep the conv less than 5 min and it has been less than 5 min (all of them).

Guys plz help me

Oh yeah, and i do like this person!! ITs not like i dont want her to call me, but i know that if this continues shell lose interest in me
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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dam ppl.....help me!! i really need help on this one guyz.....
Any advice or any little tip could help me, plz post SOMETHIGN!
 

PiMpIn GuY

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yeah i thought about not pickin up, but that might cause her to think i dont like her or something....but thx for the tip! anyone else?
 

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Turn your cell phone off unless you want to talk to somebody.

And chill... if you're unavailable half the time, her interest should go up, not down. If it does go down, she's a stinking attention wh0re.

BGMan
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Set your phone to put a specific ring on when its her number and answer it when you like to.
 

crackhead

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howbout stick your **** in her crotch


damn man, 15?? that sounds normal for girls to be extra chatty and calling you all the time

she likes you

and she's an 8

make your move

i wish this site existed when i was 15
 

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You might try either going out on a date, in which case she would be more confident about what stage your relationship is in, or you could confront her about the constant messages.

It's better for her to learn early that no one should be that needy so that when she's 5 years older and meets another great guy (like me ;) she knows how to act
 

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Yeah, if you not answering your phone once is enough to make her think you don't like her anymore, you need to rethink you're "I'm appearing to be busy and have a life" impression, because it's not working.
 

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i might be gettin this the wrong way but i do like her!

its not like i want to tell her that i dont like her, its jus that i wanna show her that i have a life (a fake one) i dont mind her callin me once in a while tho
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Yeah, if you not answering your phone once is enough to make her think you don't like her anymore, you need to rethink you're "I'm appearing to be busy and have a life" impression, because it's not working.
i might be gettin this the wrong way but i do like her!

its not like i want to tell her that i dont like her, its jus that i wanna show her that i have a life (a fake one) i dont mind her callin me once in a while tho
hahhah whoops i quoted myslef...sry for the double post......dont read this stupid post!! lol
 
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