"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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HELP! gf, prom, another guy

Maeisgood

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If your car is too big, then they might think you are compensating for something. I've heard that before.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Joe The Homophobe

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Originally posted by wavejams007
Dude, this is two-sided. If She doens't go any farthur then friends with this other dude, then by not acting protective or jealous, U develope more trust between the two of you.
Are you dumb or something? his girlfriend comes and tells him that she wants to go to the prom with another guy and she gives the excuse 'im doing it as a favor and we are just really friends,' he might as well end the relationship with her right there. No girlfriend who is loyal would even consider this out of fear of having the relationship ended and the big jealousy it would cause. She is obviously not loyal and will probably end up dumping you sooner or later.

think about it, what do you think she would say if you told her you want to go to the prom with another girl? just like any other girl she would probably freak out!

My advice for you is to start looking for another girlfriend but don't end it with this one just yet. This is like an old car that still goes but you look in the paper everyday for a new one to replace it soon. Look for another gf and when you find one dump the current one you have for betraying you.
 
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