"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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HELP! gf, prom, another guy

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Maeisgood

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If your car is too big, then they might think you are compensating for something. I've heard that before.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Joe The Homophobe

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Originally posted by wavejams007
Dude, this is two-sided. If She doens't go any farthur then friends with this other dude, then by not acting protective or jealous, U develope more trust between the two of you.
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Are you dumb or something? his girlfriend comes and tells him that she wants to go to the prom with another guy and she gives the excuse 'im doing it as a favor and we are just really friends,' he might as well end the relationship with her right there. No girlfriend who is loyal would even consider this out of fear of having the relationship ended and the big jealousy it would cause. She is obviously not loyal and will probably end up dumping you sooner or later.

think about it, what do you think she would say if you told her you want to go to the prom with another girl? just like any other girl she would probably freak out!

My advice for you is to start looking for another girlfriend but don't end it with this one just yet. This is like an old car that still goes but you look in the paper everyday for a new one to replace it soon. Look for another gf and when you find one dump the current one you have for betraying you.
 
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