"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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HELP! gf, prom, another guy

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Maeisgood

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If your car is too big, then they might think you are compensating for something. I've heard that before.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by wavejams007
Dude, this is two-sided. If She doens't go any farthur then friends with this other dude, then by not acting protective or jealous, U develope more trust between the two of you.
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Are you dumb or something? his girlfriend comes and tells him that she wants to go to the prom with another guy and she gives the excuse 'im doing it as a favor and we are just really friends,' he might as well end the relationship with her right there. No girlfriend who is loyal would even consider this out of fear of having the relationship ended and the big jealousy it would cause. She is obviously not loyal and will probably end up dumping you sooner or later.

think about it, what do you think she would say if you told her you want to go to the prom with another girl? just like any other girl she would probably freak out!

My advice for you is to start looking for another girlfriend but don't end it with this one just yet. This is like an old car that still goes but you look in the paper everyday for a new one to replace it soon. Look for another gf and when you find one dump the current one you have for betraying you.
 
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