"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Help for a friend

InspirationMan

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I'm packing up to head out of town for a while, do I don't have time to help this guy. I refered him here for information, give him your open arms and advice, he's a good bud of mine.

Here's his problem:

Girl he was with for 3 years breaks his heart, cheats on him, he finds out she's now with a total scumbag who's been in jail and done tons of illegal violent things.

The guy I talked to is a total AFC, and wants to know why she chose the other guy over him.

I refered him to the DJ bible and this site, so he'll be posting here in a few days, so this is a heads up.

Take care of him, and I'll be back in a week.
^_^

~ISPMan
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Some women find it a thrill to date and bang guys who are "bad boys" and their parents would not approve of. My best guess as to why they do this is for two reasons.

1. They are raised to be princesses as it were. Everything they want is given to them by everyone. Your friend to probably gave lots of things, material or emotional, to her. She takes this for granted and when some freak came along who doesn't care about her and will hurt her, and hold out on her. This breaks the status quo and excites her.

2. Girls are raised in a more protective atmosphere, one that ends up feeling like a prison or can feel that way to them. They are also told be seen and not heard and junk like that. Unable to lash out or express herself because of her protected environment she hurts herself and others to communicate her fustration. Example: dating a convict who probably won't win boyfriend of the year.

Your friend did a good thing though. He broke up with her and isn't looking back. Which is a lot more than most AFCs can do. Whats past is past, your buddy has to realize that some women are not going to all together and are actually quiet immature. My biggest suggestion is that in the future he screen out possible girlfriends a little more so he can aviod flaky women in the future.

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Originally posted by InspirationMan
Girl he was with for 3 years breaks his heart, cheats on him, he finds out she's now with a total scumbag who's been in jail and done tons of illegal violent things.

The guy I talked to is a total AFC, and wants to know why she chose the other guy over him.

This girl is a hor and he is asking the WRONG question - he should be asking, "Why do I want a hor like this"!!

When he answers this question then he will grow as a man!!

Most hors want 'any' man - so tell him not to take it personal!

He had something to 'keep' her for three years so unless he changed into a monster then he is not the problem!!

Also beoing an AFC obviously had something to do with it! But she obviously liked his AFC character for three years :rolleyes:
 
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Re: Re: Help for a friend

Originally posted by RussianRocket
So... what do these "AFCs" eat? :confused:
Good one Russian! :)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The wh0re chose the other guy cuz your **** was too good for her and she wants people will shriveled ****s/sacks.

But in reality, she just went for the guy who exuded more "maleness." You're an A.F.C. We're gonna fukin turn you into a P.I.M.P.

You've come to the right place.

.......damn that sounded like a commercial.
 
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