"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Help for a friend

InspirationMan

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I'm packing up to head out of town for a while, do I don't have time to help this guy. I refered him here for information, give him your open arms and advice, he's a good bud of mine.

Here's his problem:

Girl he was with for 3 years breaks his heart, cheats on him, he finds out she's now with a total scumbag who's been in jail and done tons of illegal violent things.

The guy I talked to is a total AFC, and wants to know why she chose the other guy over him.

I refered him to the DJ bible and this site, so he'll be posting here in a few days, so this is a heads up.

Take care of him, and I'll be back in a week.
^_^

~ISPMan
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Grey Fox

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Some women find it a thrill to date and bang guys who are "bad boys" and their parents would not approve of. My best guess as to why they do this is for two reasons.

1. They are raised to be princesses as it were. Everything they want is given to them by everyone. Your friend to probably gave lots of things, material or emotional, to her. She takes this for granted and when some freak came along who doesn't care about her and will hurt her, and hold out on her. This breaks the status quo and excites her.

2. Girls are raised in a more protective atmosphere, one that ends up feeling like a prison or can feel that way to them. They are also told be seen and not heard and junk like that. Unable to lash out or express herself because of her protected environment she hurts herself and others to communicate her fustration. Example: dating a convict who probably won't win boyfriend of the year.

Your friend did a good thing though. He broke up with her and isn't looking back. Which is a lot more than most AFCs can do. Whats past is past, your buddy has to realize that some women are not going to all together and are actually quiet immature. My biggest suggestion is that in the future he screen out possible girlfriends a little more so he can aviod flaky women in the future.

-Grey Fox
 
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Originally posted by InspirationMan
Girl he was with for 3 years breaks his heart, cheats on him, he finds out she's now with a total scumbag who's been in jail and done tons of illegal violent things.

The guy I talked to is a total AFC, and wants to know why she chose the other guy over him.

This girl is a hor and he is asking the WRONG question - he should be asking, "Why do I want a hor like this"!!

When he answers this question then he will grow as a man!!

Most hors want 'any' man - so tell him not to take it personal!

He had something to 'keep' her for three years so unless he changed into a monster then he is not the problem!!

Also beoing an AFC obviously had something to do with it! But she obviously liked his AFC character for three years :rolleyes:
 
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Re: Re: Help for a friend

Originally posted by RussianRocket
So... what do these "AFCs" eat? :confused:
Good one Russian! :)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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AFK Protector

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The wh0re chose the other guy cuz your **** was too good for her and she wants people will shriveled ****s/sacks.

But in reality, she just went for the guy who exuded more "maleness." You're an A.F.C. We're gonna fukin turn you into a P.I.M.P.

You've come to the right place.

.......damn that sounded like a commercial.
 
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