"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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HELP FAST! She's txting me that she's drunk..

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I'm getting texts from this chick I've been talking to daily

"I'm drunk. . . Drinking wine'

so I say "wine is good...i have some at my house the older the better"

then she says "you going to let me drink that?"
and I say "if you want to you can"
Then she keeps telling me
"OMG im so drunk!"

I dont know what else to say. She can't come over since she's with her co-workers at a party but she can't stop contacting me. What should I text her back GAMING HER/DJ so I could show her that I'm sexually attracted to her without sounding AFC?!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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well by saying "if you want to you can" you just gave in, and way too fast (sounded AFC). I would of said "your paying for it, bring your checkbook and get on over here".
 
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"um no. . That's not cool"

haha i guess the spanking comment was a bit too far
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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tell the ***** to come over. ****. that the drunk ho mating call fool! "i'm sooooo drunk" so they can blame it on the liqour after they give up that good stuff. Grab your balls, man up and get that freak to your crib. Stop posting on a ****ing message board about what to do. You know what to do son. stop being scared.

she can't come? what..are they gonna hold her at gunpoint? Tell her your on your way. yall are gonna do something fun. its a suprise. Go get her. and **** her. gezus boy.
 
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Yeah man up and take advantage of a drunk girl.. thats pretty classy.
 
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BTW I can't meet her lol, she's in another state with her co-workers for job and they are all out tonight and she's just txting me all this right now.

She just responded saying "You know you want too :)" HAHAHA



this might get good. at least its turning sexual..
 
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jamescr73 said:
well by saying "if you want to you can" you just gave in, and way too fast (sounded AFC). I would of said "your paying for it, bring your checkbook and get on over here".
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I agree with the first sentence, in terms of how you worded it. I would have told her "either come over or don't, but stop texting me."

Take the push-pull drama and fun away from her.
 
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She's gonna forget everything in the morning.. so don't put in too much effort or get your hopes up.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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splinterkb said:
Yeah man up and take advantage of a drunk girl.. thats pretty classy.
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yah. because alchol makes you do things you don't want to do. lol. good luck buddy.
 
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