"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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HELP FAST! She's txting me that she's drunk..

montybrown

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I'm getting texts from this chick I've been talking to daily

"I'm drunk. . . Drinking wine'

so I say "wine is good...i have some at my house the older the better"

then she says "you going to let me drink that?"
and I say "if you want to you can"
Then she keeps telling me
"OMG im so drunk!"

I dont know what else to say. She can't come over since she's with her co-workers at a party but she can't stop contacting me. What should I text her back GAMING HER/DJ so I could show her that I'm sexually attracted to her without sounding AFC?!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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jamescr73

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well by saying "if you want to you can" you just gave in, and way too fast (sounded AFC). I would of said "your paying for it, bring your checkbook and get on over here".
 

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"um no. . That's not cool"

haha i guess the spanking comment was a bit too far
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Warrior74

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tell the ***** to come over. ****. that the drunk ho mating call fool! "i'm sooooo drunk" so they can blame it on the liqour after they give up that good stuff. Grab your balls, man up and get that freak to your crib. Stop posting on a ****ing message board about what to do. You know what to do son. stop being scared.

she can't come? what..are they gonna hold her at gunpoint? Tell her your on your way. yall are gonna do something fun. its a suprise. Go get her. and **** her. gezus boy.
 

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Yeah man up and take advantage of a drunk girl.. thats pretty classy.
 

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BTW I can't meet her lol, she's in another state with her co-workers for job and they are all out tonight and she's just txting me all this right now.

She just responded saying "You know you want too :)" HAHAHA



this might get good. at least its turning sexual..
 

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jamescr73 said:
well by saying "if you want to you can" you just gave in, and way too fast (sounded AFC). I would of said "your paying for it, bring your checkbook and get on over here".
I agree with the first sentence, in terms of how you worded it. I would have told her "either come over or don't, but stop texting me."

Take the push-pull drama and fun away from her.
 

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She's gonna forget everything in the morning.. so don't put in too much effort or get your hopes up.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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splinterkb said:
Yeah man up and take advantage of a drunk girl.. thats pretty classy.

yah. because alchol makes you do things you don't want to do. lol. good luck buddy.
 
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