"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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HELP FAST! She's txting me that she's drunk..

montybrown

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I'm getting texts from this chick I've been talking to daily

"I'm drunk. . . Drinking wine'

so I say "wine is good...i have some at my house the older the better"

then she says "you going to let me drink that?"
and I say "if you want to you can"
Then she keeps telling me
"OMG im so drunk!"

I dont know what else to say. She can't come over since she's with her co-workers at a party but she can't stop contacting me. What should I text her back GAMING HER/DJ so I could show her that I'm sexually attracted to her without sounding AFC?!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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jamescr73

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well by saying "if you want to you can" you just gave in, and way too fast (sounded AFC). I would of said "your paying for it, bring your checkbook and get on over here".
 

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"um no. . That's not cool"

haha i guess the spanking comment was a bit too far
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Warrior74

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tell the ***** to come over. ****. that the drunk ho mating call fool! "i'm sooooo drunk" so they can blame it on the liqour after they give up that good stuff. Grab your balls, man up and get that freak to your crib. Stop posting on a ****ing message board about what to do. You know what to do son. stop being scared.

she can't come? what..are they gonna hold her at gunpoint? Tell her your on your way. yall are gonna do something fun. its a suprise. Go get her. and **** her. gezus boy.
 

splinterkb

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Yeah man up and take advantage of a drunk girl.. thats pretty classy.
 

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BTW I can't meet her lol, she's in another state with her co-workers for job and they are all out tonight and she's just txting me all this right now.

She just responded saying "You know you want too :)" HAHAHA



this might get good. at least its turning sexual..
 

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jamescr73 said:
well by saying "if you want to you can" you just gave in, and way too fast (sounded AFC). I would of said "your paying for it, bring your checkbook and get on over here".
I agree with the first sentence, in terms of how you worded it. I would have told her "either come over or don't, but stop texting me."

Take the push-pull drama and fun away from her.
 

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She's gonna forget everything in the morning.. so don't put in too much effort or get your hopes up.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Warrior74

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splinterkb said:
Yeah man up and take advantage of a drunk girl.. thats pretty classy.

yah. because alchol makes you do things you don't want to do. lol. good luck buddy.
 
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