"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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HELP FAST! She's txting me that she's drunk..

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I'm getting texts from this chick I've been talking to daily

"I'm drunk. . . Drinking wine'

so I say "wine is good...i have some at my house the older the better"

then she says "you going to let me drink that?"
and I say "if you want to you can"
Then she keeps telling me
"OMG im so drunk!"

I dont know what else to say. She can't come over since she's with her co-workers at a party but she can't stop contacting me. What should I text her back GAMING HER/DJ so I could show her that I'm sexually attracted to her without sounding AFC?!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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well by saying "if you want to you can" you just gave in, and way too fast (sounded AFC). I would of said "your paying for it, bring your checkbook and get on over here".
 
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"um no. . That's not cool"

haha i guess the spanking comment was a bit too far
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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tell the ***** to come over. ****. that the drunk ho mating call fool! "i'm sooooo drunk" so they can blame it on the liqour after they give up that good stuff. Grab your balls, man up and get that freak to your crib. Stop posting on a ****ing message board about what to do. You know what to do son. stop being scared.

she can't come? what..are they gonna hold her at gunpoint? Tell her your on your way. yall are gonna do something fun. its a suprise. Go get her. and **** her. gezus boy.
 
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Yeah man up and take advantage of a drunk girl.. thats pretty classy.
 
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BTW I can't meet her lol, she's in another state with her co-workers for job and they are all out tonight and she's just txting me all this right now.

She just responded saying "You know you want too :)" HAHAHA



this might get good. at least its turning sexual..
 
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jamescr73 said:
well by saying "if you want to you can" you just gave in, and way too fast (sounded AFC). I would of said "your paying for it, bring your checkbook and get on over here".
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I agree with the first sentence, in terms of how you worded it. I would have told her "either come over or don't, but stop texting me."

Take the push-pull drama and fun away from her.
 
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She's gonna forget everything in the morning.. so don't put in too much effort or get your hopes up.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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splinterkb said:
Yeah man up and take advantage of a drunk girl.. thats pretty classy.
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yah. because alchol makes you do things you don't want to do. lol. good luck buddy.
 
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