"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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drixsa

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I've noticed that my only real problem
(lately) is that i tend to befriend everyone (though thats not a problem) but i can't seem to turn the conversation into one where i can see her interest for me growing (im very good at reading people).

Usually i never finish these posts because by the time i finished writing i have already answered my question but i figured i'd let you kids take a crack at my dilema.

To be fair i haven't been working very hard to get laid or even to meet new women and get numbers, etc...but I thought I'd give the Fine DJ's of sosuave.com a chance to help me out.

So anyone here who actually knows what they are talking about feel free to give me some advice, tips, or whatever is useful.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Only pursue women romantically and for a purpose other than to "befriend"!!! Talking to women who with you seek romance as a friend is a grave error!!!! They lose respect for you as a man!!!
 
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drixsa

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Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
Only pursue women romantically and for a purpose other than to "befriend"!!! Talking to women who with you seek romance as a friend is a grave error!!!! They lose respect for you as a man!!!
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I would say that i have not been seeking too much so I am not worried about my respect being in question but you are correct in general.

Also, NOTE TO EVERYONE:

If you have any good posts to point out they will be accepted and appreciated.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by drixsa
try to stay on topic
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some of this advice, is like gold..the collective gains made from hard work and experience..

I don't see how you can ask us to give you this valuable experience, and yet you can not share whether you are a real doctor or not ?

Do you really want good advice or not ?
 
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