"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I've noticed that my only real problem
(lately) is that i tend to befriend everyone (though thats not a problem) but i can't seem to turn the conversation into one where i can see her interest for me growing (im very good at reading people).

Usually i never finish these posts because by the time i finished writing i have already answered my question but i figured i'd let you kids take a crack at my dilema.

To be fair i haven't been working very hard to get laid or even to meet new women and get numbers, etc...but I thought I'd give the Fine DJ's of sosuave.com a chance to help me out.

So anyone here who actually knows what they are talking about feel free to give me some advice, tips, or whatever is useful.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Only pursue women romantically and for a purpose other than to "befriend"!!! Talking to women who with you seek romance as a friend is a grave error!!!! They lose respect for you as a man!!!
 
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Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
Only pursue women romantically and for a purpose other than to "befriend"!!! Talking to women who with you seek romance as a friend is a grave error!!!! They lose respect for you as a man!!!
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I would say that i have not been seeking too much so I am not worried about my respect being in question but you are correct in general.

Also, NOTE TO EVERYONE:

If you have any good posts to point out they will be accepted and appreciated.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Originally posted by drixsa
try to stay on topic
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some of this advice, is like gold..the collective gains made from hard work and experience..

I don't see how you can ask us to give you this valuable experience, and yet you can not share whether you are a real doctor or not ?

Do you really want good advice or not ?
 
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