"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I've noticed that my only real problem
(lately) is that i tend to befriend everyone (though thats not a problem) but i can't seem to turn the conversation into one where i can see her interest for me growing (im very good at reading people).

Usually i never finish these posts because by the time i finished writing i have already answered my question but i figured i'd let you kids take a crack at my dilema.

To be fair i haven't been working very hard to get laid or even to meet new women and get numbers, etc...but I thought I'd give the Fine DJ's of sosuave.com a chance to help me out.

So anyone here who actually knows what they are talking about feel free to give me some advice, tips, or whatever is useful.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Only pursue women romantically and for a purpose other than to "befriend"!!! Talking to women who with you seek romance as a friend is a grave error!!!! They lose respect for you as a man!!!
 
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Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
Only pursue women romantically and for a purpose other than to "befriend"!!! Talking to women who with you seek romance as a friend is a grave error!!!! They lose respect for you as a man!!!
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I would say that i have not been seeking too much so I am not worried about my respect being in question but you are correct in general.

Also, NOTE TO EVERYONE:

If you have any good posts to point out they will be accepted and appreciated.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Originally posted by drixsa
try to stay on topic
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some of this advice, is like gold..the collective gains made from hard work and experience..

I don't see how you can ask us to give you this valuable experience, and yet you can not share whether you are a real doctor or not ?

Do you really want good advice or not ?
 
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