Im having girl troubles and i need some advice
Ok so there is this girl named Mindy that doesnt go to the same school as me. The only time we have contact is through swim practice. We go to the same swim practice everyday throughout the week. And we also run together after swim practice, during the jog we usually talk about swim and school stuff. She seems to enjoy my company. I occasionally give out hints of my intentions. But here is where the problems start
First of all she is two years older than me. Shes a senior where i am a sophomore, im 15 shes 17. However height isnt an issue since we are the same height. She also doesnt look very old either, she looks the same if not younger than me. We dont go to the same school, our only contact is through swimming and texting.
We have been enjoying eachother's company for months now and we text a lot too. Im afraid that I might end up in the friend zone. So i built up the courage to ask her out to the movies. She first says "no thanks", so i followed up with "another time then", which she then tells me that she has a boyfriend. Out of the months that we have been talking shes never mentioned this boyfriend. Im not worried about the friendship ending since we still talk without awkwardness.
I'm worried that i might end up in the friend category, or maybe i already am and if i should just give up with her. You guys have any tips on how maybe i could win her over her boyfriend or maybe i should move on.
ps.i have no clue on how her relationship with her boyfriend is doing."if she even has one"
edit: Im not a sexual guy. Shes also a nice girl, i dont plan on being sexual with her. Plus shes not the sexual type either.
Ok so there is this girl named Mindy that doesnt go to the same school as me. The only time we have contact is through swim practice. We go to the same swim practice everyday throughout the week. And we also run together after swim practice, during the jog we usually talk about swim and school stuff. She seems to enjoy my company. I occasionally give out hints of my intentions. But here is where the problems start
First of all she is two years older than me. Shes a senior where i am a sophomore, im 15 shes 17. However height isnt an issue since we are the same height. She also doesnt look very old either, she looks the same if not younger than me. We dont go to the same school, our only contact is through swimming and texting.
We have been enjoying eachother's company for months now and we text a lot too. Im afraid that I might end up in the friend zone. So i built up the courage to ask her out to the movies. She first says "no thanks", so i followed up with "another time then", which she then tells me that she has a boyfriend. Out of the months that we have been talking shes never mentioned this boyfriend. Im not worried about the friendship ending since we still talk without awkwardness.
I'm worried that i might end up in the friend category, or maybe i already am and if i should just give up with her. You guys have any tips on how maybe i could win her over her boyfriend or maybe i should move on.
ps.i have no clue on how her relationship with her boyfriend is doing."if she even has one"
edit: Im not a sexual guy. Shes also a nice girl, i dont plan on being sexual with her. Plus shes not the sexual type either.
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