"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I'm not sure if I'm making too much of this but here's the deal:

I met this chick at a bar thru a friend of mine last Saturday and we hit it off. We danced, talkded and basically hung out all night together...at the end of the night we had a little make-out session and i got her number.

I'm 21 go to college and live with my parents, this chick hb9, is 25 and has her own place. We're most likely gonna go out this weekend but the problem is I dont know what place seems reasonable. I just feel like going to the movies or playing mini-golf doesn't seem like something a 25 year old chick would be into. I dont wanna feel like a little school kid going out with a grown up (Does that make sense?).

Anyways, any comments, tips or advice would be appreciated.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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so what you want to do!


ur attitude, confidence and passione will define you..not what ur doing with her!

sometimes the simplist things are the best things.

take her to a comedy club
 
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Good Advice frivolous! Don't let the age factor intimidate you. Keep her in your reality. Mini golf is fun sh!t no matter what age you are...:D
 
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Originally posted by frivolousz21
so do what you want to do!


ur attitude, confidence and passione will define you..not what ur doing with her!
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Yes thank you...this site is winning back my faith slowly but surely.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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