"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Help clearing something up..

Kaliffoo

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I'm not sure if I'm making too much of this but here's the deal:

I met this chick at a bar thru a friend of mine last Saturday and we hit it off. We danced, talkded and basically hung out all night together...at the end of the night we had a little make-out session and i got her number.

I'm 21 go to college and live with my parents, this chick hb9, is 25 and has her own place. We're most likely gonna go out this weekend but the problem is I dont know what place seems reasonable. I just feel like going to the movies or playing mini-golf doesn't seem like something a 25 year old chick would be into. I dont wanna feel like a little school kid going out with a grown up (Does that make sense?).

Anyways, any comments, tips or advice would be appreciated.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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frivolousz21

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so what you want to do!


ur attitude, confidence and passione will define you..not what ur doing with her!

sometimes the simplist things are the best things.

take her to a comedy club
 

PeoplesChamp

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Good Advice frivolous! Don't let the age factor intimidate you. Keep her in your reality. Mini golf is fun sh!t no matter what age you are...:D
 

blue17

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Originally posted by frivolousz21
so do what you want to do!


ur attitude, confidence and passione will define you..not what ur doing with her!
Yes thank you...this site is winning back my faith slowly but surely.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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