"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I'm not sure if I'm making too much of this but here's the deal:

I met this chick at a bar thru a friend of mine last Saturday and we hit it off. We danced, talkded and basically hung out all night together...at the end of the night we had a little make-out session and i got her number.

I'm 21 go to college and live with my parents, this chick hb9, is 25 and has her own place. We're most likely gonna go out this weekend but the problem is I dont know what place seems reasonable. I just feel like going to the movies or playing mini-golf doesn't seem like something a 25 year old chick would be into. I dont wanna feel like a little school kid going out with a grown up (Does that make sense?).

Anyways, any comments, tips or advice would be appreciated.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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so what you want to do!


ur attitude, confidence and passione will define you..not what ur doing with her!

sometimes the simplist things are the best things.

take her to a comedy club
 
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Good Advice frivolous! Don't let the age factor intimidate you. Keep her in your reality. Mini golf is fun sh!t no matter what age you are...:D
 
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Originally posted by frivolousz21
so do what you want to do!


ur attitude, confidence and passione will define you..not what ur doing with her!
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Yes thank you...this site is winning back my faith slowly but surely.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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