"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Warpal

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Ive been on a date with a girl 3 times. One of those time was at my place. ( no ****ing). I could tell she was into me. But now with the corona virus, she moved away to her parents. Which is like 100 miles away.
Now the last time we texted, was about 3 weeks ago. After that, i wanted to contact her, so i said " call me". It has been 4 days and she hasnt call me.

It's a shame to lose a girl i invested in. Anyting i can do? At least still get a **** out of it.

Regards,

Jesse
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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She is far, she is gone.
Have you tried to kiss her, at least?

I'd suggest you never contact her again and work on your game, health and shape as to be ready for more chicks when covid will have settled.
 

Warpal

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She is far, she is gone.
Have you tried to kiss her, at least?

I'd suggest you never contact her again and work on your game, health and shape as to be ready for more chicks when covid will have settled.
Yeah we kissed multiple times. My game is pretty solid, i still have some plates going. But this girl was like a 8/10 in physical and mental.
Also i dont want my invested time go to waste.
 

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I personally don't do txting. Just call her.

Don't text chicks just call them and be confident.
 

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I'd say just give her a ring.. but also why didn't you **** her when she was at your house? I've had girls ghost me for not ****ing them lol.. it's always better to try and get turned down, rather than be labeled as the guy who is too much of a ***** to make a move.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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BaldandBrazy88

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Good morning brother.
I'll say that you didn't strike while the iron was hot. You missed the shot. You dropped the ball. Girls won't pull out your pants, boxer and put it in ( sometimes they do, not the usual) but they will make themselves available for you (you said you got your game on point, you should know this by now). Now, you also know how flakey and how short the attention spam is with them, her ignoring you means another ding dong is in the picture more likely than not, plus you re coming off from the wrong mindset " at least a f+ck from the invested time" well sounds like ego talking. Kiss that girl goodbye or call her, directly, don't ask for $hit (why would you in the first place)
Anywho good luck big bro
PS: even if your game is strong, it can be stronger, it never stops brodie
 

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I'd say just give her a ring.. but also why didn't you **** her when she was at your house? I've had girls ghost me for not ****ing them lol.. it's always better to try and get turned down, rather than be labeled as the guy who is too much of a ***** to make a move.
She had to take the bus home around that time we were busy. She said we wont make it if we do this now. So we quit
 

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She had to take the bus home around that time we were busy. She said we wont make it if we do this now. So we quit
Then you need a answer for that statement. You could lie and say you will drive her home. Or get a taxi. Or if you had a car you could drive her home after. You could even pretend to ring a cousin and ask them to drive both of you back. That last one is probably better since you can just pretend to ring again and say to the chick that your cousins car isn't working after you have banged,
 

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Then you need a answer for that statement. You could lie and say you will drive her home. Or get a taxi. Or if you had a car you could drive her home after. You could even pretend to ring a cousin and ask them to drive both of you back. That last one is probably better since you can just pretend to ring again and say to the chick that your cousins car isn't working after you have banged,
Yeah but that’s history for now :)
 

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@Warpal you are not looking for advise, you re looking to hear whatever you wanna hear. Kiss that girl goodbye. You had your chance
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Warpal

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yeah, maybe i did. The thing is. We had a date planned. But then the corona came. Maybe it’s just blue pill thinking that corona was the problem. I will call her
 

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It's a shame to lose a girl i invested in. Anyting i can do? At least still get a **** out of it.

Regards,

Jesse
Sunk cost fallacy my friend. Investing in women is like investing in boats. A boat is a hole in the water that you throw money into.

If she doesn't want to talk to you then leave her alone.
 

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You missed your chance man. She then lost interest. Then she moved.
move on as she did. Next time hit that when it’s there.
 

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I just called her out of the blue. She didn’t answer. But she rang me back. All was okay. I was overthinking. I’m stop doing that. Thanks for the advice guys
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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