"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Warpal

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Ive been on a date with a girl 3 times. One of those time was at my place. ( no ****ing). I could tell she was into me. But now with the corona virus, she moved away to her parents. Which is like 100 miles away.
Now the last time we texted, was about 3 weeks ago. After that, i wanted to contact her, so i said " call me". It has been 4 days and she hasnt call me.

It's a shame to lose a girl i invested in. Anyting i can do? At least still get a **** out of it.

Regards,

Jesse
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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She is far, she is gone.
Have you tried to kiss her, at least?

I'd suggest you never contact her again and work on your game, health and shape as to be ready for more chicks when covid will have settled.
 

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She is far, she is gone.
Have you tried to kiss her, at least?

I'd suggest you never contact her again and work on your game, health and shape as to be ready for more chicks when covid will have settled.
Yeah we kissed multiple times. My game is pretty solid, i still have some plates going. But this girl was like a 8/10 in physical and mental.
Also i dont want my invested time go to waste.
 

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I personally don't do txting. Just call her.

Don't text chicks just call them and be confident.
 

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I'd say just give her a ring.. but also why didn't you **** her when she was at your house? I've had girls ghost me for not ****ing them lol.. it's always better to try and get turned down, rather than be labeled as the guy who is too much of a ***** to make a move.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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BaldandBrazy88

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Good morning brother.
I'll say that you didn't strike while the iron was hot. You missed the shot. You dropped the ball. Girls won't pull out your pants, boxer and put it in ( sometimes they do, not the usual) but they will make themselves available for you (you said you got your game on point, you should know this by now). Now, you also know how flakey and how short the attention spam is with them, her ignoring you means another ding dong is in the picture more likely than not, plus you re coming off from the wrong mindset " at least a f+ck from the invested time" well sounds like ego talking. Kiss that girl goodbye or call her, directly, don't ask for $hit (why would you in the first place)
Anywho good luck big bro
PS: even if your game is strong, it can be stronger, it never stops brodie
 

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I'd say just give her a ring.. but also why didn't you **** her when she was at your house? I've had girls ghost me for not ****ing them lol.. it's always better to try and get turned down, rather than be labeled as the guy who is too much of a ***** to make a move.
She had to take the bus home around that time we were busy. She said we wont make it if we do this now. So we quit
 

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She had to take the bus home around that time we were busy. She said we wont make it if we do this now. So we quit
Then you need a answer for that statement. You could lie and say you will drive her home. Or get a taxi. Or if you had a car you could drive her home after. You could even pretend to ring a cousin and ask them to drive both of you back. That last one is probably better since you can just pretend to ring again and say to the chick that your cousins car isn't working after you have banged,
 

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Then you need a answer for that statement. You could lie and say you will drive her home. Or get a taxi. Or if you had a car you could drive her home after. You could even pretend to ring a cousin and ask them to drive both of you back. That last one is probably better since you can just pretend to ring again and say to the chick that your cousins car isn't working after you have banged,
Yeah but that’s history for now :)
 

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@Warpal you are not looking for advise, you re looking to hear whatever you wanna hear. Kiss that girl goodbye. You had your chance
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Warpal

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yeah, maybe i did. The thing is. We had a date planned. But then the corona came. Maybe it’s just blue pill thinking that corona was the problem. I will call her
 

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It's a shame to lose a girl i invested in. Anyting i can do? At least still get a **** out of it.

Regards,

Jesse
Sunk cost fallacy my friend. Investing in women is like investing in boats. A boat is a hole in the water that you throw money into.

If she doesn't want to talk to you then leave her alone.
 

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You missed your chance man. She then lost interest. Then she moved.
move on as she did. Next time hit that when it’s there.
 

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I just called her out of the blue. She didn’t answer. But she rang me back. All was okay. I was overthinking. I’m stop doing that. Thanks for the advice guys
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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