"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Hello, my name is VivalaRebellion, and...

vivalarebellion

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...I'm introducing myself:up: . I'm sixteen years old right now, but I'll be seventeen soon in April, and I'm a junior in high school right now. So I thought it'd be best to post in this section.

For most of my life, and coming into high school, I used to be the fat or awkward person, but thankfully I stopped taking **** and stopped caring and started to work out. Hopefully, I'm on the path to being a DJ. (<-lol, I was stupid and was wondering for a long time why everyone was referring to themselves as disc jockeys).

I still have a long way to go, but, I've decided to change. And If I'm going to go, I'll go big. I plan to conquer my high school next year, and so, it seems I found the perfect place:woo: .
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Awesome. I'm in Highschool now, actually my second year, and I turned seventeen this March. But anyway. I'll help you out when ever you need it bro.
 

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T-Roy said:
Awesome. I'm in Highschool now, actually my second year, and I turned seventeen this March. But anyway. I'll help you out when ever you need it bro.
Thanks man. I wish I had started this all when I was earlier in high school, but I couldn't muster up the balls to do anything until now. I don't plan on just leeching from the members here, hopefully I can contribute from what I learn as I wing it.
 

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Good Luck Viva!

You're in for the best times of you life
 

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Same here! Wish I had found this sort of place when I was in HS, but then again, I was never dumped in HS (and never dumped a girl either, make your own conclusions...) and so never googled "how to get ex back." I ended up on Loveshack.org, and, although that taught me the basis of No Contact, and offered great emotional support, it didn't tell me how to move on and find a new girl!
Now I absolutely want to move on, and I hope what I learn from this site will really help. I've already started applying the first lesson of the Don Juan Boot Camp (ie prolonged Eye Contact and saying "Hi!") and I hope I'll quickly move on to the next "lessons".

Vivalarebellion, good luck with your HS win back! It's a tough place when you don't fit in, if it doesn't work as well as you planned there's always college to look forward to! Let's DO THIS!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Thanks MCristo, labrat! I've enjoyed high school so far, but, simply put. I could make it better, a lot better. Hanging out with my friends is cool and all, but it's time for something bigger.

I don't have a bad reputation in my high school, thankfully. I'm known as being one of the smartest people in my class, but not as a nerd. (People don't really call you a nerd when you've proven that you can bench press as much as the football players:cool: ). My school is ruled by the football players (probably like every other school), and so getting their respect helped a lot.

And so, Spring Break is over. After this weekend, back to school. Let the changes begin.
 

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Well, well, well. First day back and it already feels different. Went into the first period of the day and was talkative, flirted with some girls, made jokes that the entire class laughed at. And! I wasn't afraid of embarrassing myself, which is a massive plus to me. I spoke the truth, and didn't care whether other people laughed or not. (I am a proud nerd:up: )

Second period, one of the senior girls that I'm friends with, (amazing (boobs) body, 8.8 at the very least), suddenly starts talking to me out of nowhere, and starts asking "Is ________ here?", "Hey ________!" "How are you?", "Did you have fun?". That was amazing to me since we've never really talked even though we're in the same class. She wants me to help her workout (a chance that I'd be falling over myself before I came to these forums), so I'm going to see if she's really interested, or if she's trying to use me.

Third period, Advanced P.E...so I sit on my *** and do nothing;) . It's basically the B.S. class that people take to do nothing, and catch up with homework and stuff.

Fourth period, it started to go downhill as I got really sleepy. Suddenly I started to feel self-conscious, and so I wasn't as outgoing as I wanted to be.

So yeah, it started off amazing and tapered down as I started to question everything too much. I'm working on it, but, it's a vast improvement to what my days were like before. (Sit back, be quiet, pretty much stay out of view). It's the first day of change, and I'm going to sustain it. I still have to work on confidence, because I reply on what other people think too much still. But, it's getting better.

I was more talkative and looked in girls eyes, those were two goals I set for myself. The third, smile more, I didn't accomplish as much. The eye thing was actually pretty amusing to me since even the most (seemingly) self-confident girls would avert their eyes after a while. Do it, it's actually pretty fun.

*edit: Read smoothtalker's thread. So...I assume a girl taking my phone and taking a picture of herself and saving it, that's a sign of interest? I say this because the girl is giving me mixed signals.
 
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