"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Hello, my name is VivalaRebellion, and...

vivalarebellion

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...I'm introducing myself:up: . I'm sixteen years old right now, but I'll be seventeen soon in April, and I'm a junior in high school right now. So I thought it'd be best to post in this section.

For most of my life, and coming into high school, I used to be the fat or awkward person, but thankfully I stopped taking **** and stopped caring and started to work out. Hopefully, I'm on the path to being a DJ. (<-lol, I was stupid and was wondering for a long time why everyone was referring to themselves as disc jockeys).

I still have a long way to go, but, I've decided to change. And If I'm going to go, I'll go big. I plan to conquer my high school next year, and so, it seems I found the perfect place:woo: .
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Awesome. I'm in Highschool now, actually my second year, and I turned seventeen this March. But anyway. I'll help you out when ever you need it bro.
 

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T-Roy said:
Awesome. I'm in Highschool now, actually my second year, and I turned seventeen this March. But anyway. I'll help you out when ever you need it bro.
Thanks man. I wish I had started this all when I was earlier in high school, but I couldn't muster up the balls to do anything until now. I don't plan on just leeching from the members here, hopefully I can contribute from what I learn as I wing it.
 

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Good Luck Viva!

You're in for the best times of you life
 

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Same here! Wish I had found this sort of place when I was in HS, but then again, I was never dumped in HS (and never dumped a girl either, make your own conclusions...) and so never googled "how to get ex back." I ended up on Loveshack.org, and, although that taught me the basis of No Contact, and offered great emotional support, it didn't tell me how to move on and find a new girl!
Now I absolutely want to move on, and I hope what I learn from this site will really help. I've already started applying the first lesson of the Don Juan Boot Camp (ie prolonged Eye Contact and saying "Hi!") and I hope I'll quickly move on to the next "lessons".

Vivalarebellion, good luck with your HS win back! It's a tough place when you don't fit in, if it doesn't work as well as you planned there's always college to look forward to! Let's DO THIS!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Thanks MCristo, labrat! I've enjoyed high school so far, but, simply put. I could make it better, a lot better. Hanging out with my friends is cool and all, but it's time for something bigger.

I don't have a bad reputation in my high school, thankfully. I'm known as being one of the smartest people in my class, but not as a nerd. (People don't really call you a nerd when you've proven that you can bench press as much as the football players:cool: ). My school is ruled by the football players (probably like every other school), and so getting their respect helped a lot.

And so, Spring Break is over. After this weekend, back to school. Let the changes begin.
 

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Well, well, well. First day back and it already feels different. Went into the first period of the day and was talkative, flirted with some girls, made jokes that the entire class laughed at. And! I wasn't afraid of embarrassing myself, which is a massive plus to me. I spoke the truth, and didn't care whether other people laughed or not. (I am a proud nerd:up: )

Second period, one of the senior girls that I'm friends with, (amazing (boobs) body, 8.8 at the very least), suddenly starts talking to me out of nowhere, and starts asking "Is ________ here?", "Hey ________!" "How are you?", "Did you have fun?". That was amazing to me since we've never really talked even though we're in the same class. She wants me to help her workout (a chance that I'd be falling over myself before I came to these forums), so I'm going to see if she's really interested, or if she's trying to use me.

Third period, Advanced P.E...so I sit on my *** and do nothing;) . It's basically the B.S. class that people take to do nothing, and catch up with homework and stuff.

Fourth period, it started to go downhill as I got really sleepy. Suddenly I started to feel self-conscious, and so I wasn't as outgoing as I wanted to be.

So yeah, it started off amazing and tapered down as I started to question everything too much. I'm working on it, but, it's a vast improvement to what my days were like before. (Sit back, be quiet, pretty much stay out of view). It's the first day of change, and I'm going to sustain it. I still have to work on confidence, because I reply on what other people think too much still. But, it's getting better.

I was more talkative and looked in girls eyes, those were two goals I set for myself. The third, smile more, I didn't accomplish as much. The eye thing was actually pretty amusing to me since even the most (seemingly) self-confident girls would avert their eyes after a while. Do it, it's actually pretty fun.

*edit: Read smoothtalker's thread. So...I assume a girl taking my phone and taking a picture of herself and saving it, that's a sign of interest? I say this because the girl is giving me mixed signals.
 
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