"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Hello, I'm new here.

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Mjfan12

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I'm new here. 19, and never had a girlfriend, total loser with the ladies. 0 confidence. I'm not scared of much but Girls scare the ish out of me. My heart starts pounding like my life is threatened or something, lol. Its even hard for me to say simple stuff like hi, and I have to think about it over and over in my head. My lack of social skills can be attributed to some bad childhood experiences but I need to get over those.

Anyway, heres a pic of mine. How do I look? What can I do to improve my looks? I'm 5'9 and 148lbs. 13%BF.

I know looks dont mean much and confidence is key and I'm trying to work on that, but I want to improve myself mind, body, spirit. A guy with 0 confidence has only his looks to console him. lol.

I know picking up girls will be MUCH easier if I have a good wingman or men pushing me. If I can be pushed into doing a few approaches, then my confidence will shoot up.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Hey! You look like my cousin! Anyways you should try out the boot camp. The link for it is in the bible.
 
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I'm trying to find new friends who arent afraid of going out. All my current loser friends never wanna go out to places where chicks are.

So I hope to find some guys to hang out with in the wingman forum. People with the same goal as me.

Thanks for the welcome, I have been checking out the bootcamp and it seems like an impossible task for a extremely shy guy like myself, but I'm sick of feeling this way and I really want to end my miserable existance. I need a loser support group, lol.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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