"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Hello, I'm new here.

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Mjfan12

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I'm new here. 19, and never had a girlfriend, total loser with the ladies. 0 confidence. I'm not scared of much but Girls scare the ish out of me. My heart starts pounding like my life is threatened or something, lol. Its even hard for me to say simple stuff like hi, and I have to think about it over and over in my head. My lack of social skills can be attributed to some bad childhood experiences but I need to get over those.

Anyway, heres a pic of mine. How do I look? What can I do to improve my looks? I'm 5'9 and 148lbs. 13%BF.

I know looks dont mean much and confidence is key and I'm trying to work on that, but I want to improve myself mind, body, spirit. A guy with 0 confidence has only his looks to console him. lol.

I know picking up girls will be MUCH easier if I have a good wingman or men pushing me. If I can be pushed into doing a few approaches, then my confidence will shoot up.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Hey! You look like my cousin! Anyways you should try out the boot camp. The link for it is in the bible.
 
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Mjfan12

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I'm trying to find new friends who arent afraid of going out. All my current loser friends never wanna go out to places where chicks are.

So I hope to find some guys to hang out with in the wingman forum. People with the same goal as me.

Thanks for the welcome, I have been checking out the bootcamp and it seems like an impossible task for a extremely shy guy like myself, but I'm sick of feeling this way and I really want to end my miserable existance. I need a loser support group, lol.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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