"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Hello, I'm new here.

Mjfan12

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I'm new here. 19, and never had a girlfriend, total loser with the ladies. 0 confidence. I'm not scared of much but Girls scare the ish out of me. My heart starts pounding like my life is threatened or something, lol. Its even hard for me to say simple stuff like hi, and I have to think about it over and over in my head. My lack of social skills can be attributed to some bad childhood experiences but I need to get over those.

Anyway, heres a pic of mine. How do I look? What can I do to improve my looks? I'm 5'9 and 148lbs. 13%BF.

I know looks dont mean much and confidence is key and I'm trying to work on that, but I want to improve myself mind, body, spirit. A guy with 0 confidence has only his looks to console him. lol.

I know picking up girls will be MUCH easier if I have a good wingman or men pushing me. If I can be pushed into doing a few approaches, then my confidence will shoot up.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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JiGGhaMan

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Hey! You look like my cousin! Anyways you should try out the boot camp. The link for it is in the bible.
 

Mjfan12

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I'm trying to find new friends who arent afraid of going out. All my current loser friends never wanna go out to places where chicks are.

So I hope to find some guys to hang out with in the wingman forum. People with the same goal as me.

Thanks for the welcome, I have been checking out the bootcamp and it seems like an impossible task for a extremely shy guy like myself, but I'm sick of feeling this way and I really want to end my miserable existance. I need a loser support group, lol.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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