"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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hello,everyone

Street_Fighter

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just wanted to formaly introduce myself.Been lingering in the seduction scene for a while and crusing all the sites,mostly reading about the material and trying to keep an open mind but you have to admit..some of the stuff is a little hokey and most likely I could do without and even more chances of never even trying them out,though I still give it credit because apparently it does work for some people :up:


Me ,just a regular dude,into cars,working out,movies,anime,and just hanging out.Just looking to tighten up my game with the ladies,kinda slacking for a while in that department and now really trying to up the ante just a bit.

This site looks friendly unlike some of the other sites that are soo in your face about approaching and lay lay lay..which is cool if you have never been laid in a day in your life,but to some people have already jumped that hurdle and are looking for more it can be a little tiresome.It's kinda like being knowledgeable in advanced algebra and given nothing but addition and subtraction problems to do all day :D

anyways..HELLO!



i Can Haz teH COokie?? :D
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

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Hey man, welcome to the forum. You'll find this is one of the only seduction message boards which advocate personal development over techniques and such. For the most part. You've come to a great place.

Kudos,
Matt
 

Street_Fighter

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thanks, it does look like a cool place..maybe it's just the light blue fonts lol
 

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Aloha from Hawaii, where most the women are guarded by big angry cavemen.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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redspicyflag said:
how are the women on hawaii btw?

oh and hello

you can't have the cookie lol
Hawaii is strange for gaming bros. Here's a breakdown of the women here

1. You got your local mixed hawaiian girls. Nowadays these girls are basically white trash in brown skin. The hot ones are *****es and have psycho boyfriends who are either on crack or ice.:box:

2. You got your hippie chicks. Some of these are cute if you can deal with dreaded armpit hair:cuss: :cuss:

3. You got your tourist girls. These are the best bet because vacationers are always open to spontaneous shopping possibilities. And they either wanna brag back home that they got laid by a hawaiian guy, or they want to live out some erotic nympho-tropical fantasy that wont tag them as a slut back home.

4. You got your surfer girls. Beautiful, 10+, but dating a buff model guy, and wont talk to you unless your famous.

5. Lastly, there is a handful of normal girls, average looking, cool, laid back. These either just moved here, or are one of the rare educated ones.

Of course there are exceptions, but this is the norm.

Also a problem is the hundreds of good looking surfer guys who are all expert PUA's. I grew up in this circle, and it was severe training. Way more men than women. You aproach a girl at the beach and you have 50 friends critiquing your every move, and making rude ridiculous comments at the same time to try and mess with you. A true DJ's boot camp.

There are better places to come than Hawaii to get laid.
 

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ai broda Y you talkin' to my gurl eh? :box:

I'd LOVE to hit the shores of Hawaii..I bet there are sooooooooooo many beautifull girls there and soo many cool places and beautifull spots to check out.I like the whole 'hang loose' 'it's all good' vibe Hawaii's known for.Best of all,right when you get off the plane you get 'laid' :whistle:

how cool is that? :rockon:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Alkali said:
Wow, Hawaii sounds terrible...
It's not that bad - it just not the pustopia some think it is - Honolulu is you best bet for getting laid in the islands
 
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