"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Street_Fighter

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just wanted to formaly introduce myself.Been lingering in the seduction scene for a while and crusing all the sites,mostly reading about the material and trying to keep an open mind but you have to admit..some of the stuff is a little hokey and most likely I could do without and even more chances of never even trying them out,though I still give it credit because apparently it does work for some people :up:


Me ,just a regular dude,into cars,working out,movies,anime,and just hanging out.Just looking to tighten up my game with the ladies,kinda slacking for a while in that department and now really trying to up the ante just a bit.

This site looks friendly unlike some of the other sites that are soo in your face about approaching and lay lay lay..which is cool if you have never been laid in a day in your life,but to some people have already jumped that hurdle and are looking for more it can be a little tiresome.It's kinda like being knowledgeable in advanced algebra and given nothing but addition and subtraction problems to do all day :D

anyways..HELLO!



i Can Haz teH COokie?? :D
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Hey man, welcome to the forum. You'll find this is one of the only seduction message boards which advocate personal development over techniques and such. For the most part. You've come to a great place.

Kudos,
Matt
 

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thanks, it does look like a cool place..maybe it's just the light blue fonts lol
 

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Aloha from Hawaii, where most the women are guarded by big angry cavemen.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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redspicyflag said:
how are the women on hawaii btw?

oh and hello

you can't have the cookie lol
Hawaii is strange for gaming bros. Here's a breakdown of the women here

1. You got your local mixed hawaiian girls. Nowadays these girls are basically white trash in brown skin. The hot ones are *****es and have psycho boyfriends who are either on crack or ice.:box:

2. You got your hippie chicks. Some of these are cute if you can deal with dreaded armpit hair:cuss: :cuss:

3. You got your tourist girls. These are the best bet because vacationers are always open to spontaneous shopping possibilities. And they either wanna brag back home that they got laid by a hawaiian guy, or they want to live out some erotic nympho-tropical fantasy that wont tag them as a slut back home.

4. You got your surfer girls. Beautiful, 10+, but dating a buff model guy, and wont talk to you unless your famous.

5. Lastly, there is a handful of normal girls, average looking, cool, laid back. These either just moved here, or are one of the rare educated ones.

Of course there are exceptions, but this is the norm.

Also a problem is the hundreds of good looking surfer guys who are all expert PUA's. I grew up in this circle, and it was severe training. Way more men than women. You aproach a girl at the beach and you have 50 friends critiquing your every move, and making rude ridiculous comments at the same time to try and mess with you. A true DJ's boot camp.

There are better places to come than Hawaii to get laid.
 

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ai broda Y you talkin' to my gurl eh? :box:

I'd LOVE to hit the shores of Hawaii..I bet there are sooooooooooo many beautifull girls there and soo many cool places and beautifull spots to check out.I like the whole 'hang loose' 'it's all good' vibe Hawaii's known for.Best of all,right when you get off the plane you get 'laid' :whistle:

how cool is that? :rockon:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Alkali said:
Wow, Hawaii sounds terrible...
It's not that bad - it just not the pustopia some think it is - Honolulu is you best bet for getting laid in the islands
 
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