"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Height Sexy?

HandyAndy

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OK i have 2 questions.
1: Is height(to some extent, not like 7'3') considered sexy?

2: Im 15, and im 6'2", I always get stuff from girls at school saying, " Wow hes tall!" Or "Wow your tall" What can i say to get a positive response out of these women? I usually just say " Yea i know" Obviously its not the best comeback, any CnF responses that create attraction?:up: :cheer:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Nighthawk

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1. Height is a huge factor to many if not most women. It's blatantly unfair and superficial, but a solid fact. Enjoy your huge advantage.

2. 'No shit sherlock.'

'No. It's an illuuusion' (magicians voice)

'And I got a cute ass too'

'I used to be even taller! 'Really?' No, dumbass.'
etc
 

War Against Betaism

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After they make a comment, look away from them almost as if you were ****y and then utter out "yeah".
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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yeah its considered sexy but. why the **** cares. women only care about personality.
 

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Eugene123 said:
yeah its considered sexy but. why the **** cares. women only care about personality.
I'll go ahead and guess that you're a manlet
 

ImpatientFire

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Yea I'm tall as well (6' 6") and I get the same thing from the ladies. Height is very sexy to women so consider yourself lucky. In experiments done by scientists in Europe women seemed to prefer taller guys to their wealthier shorter counterparts. So it seems like you have an advantage. Don't let it run to your head though 'cos you'll still need charm and confidence to attract a lady.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Alkali

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HandyAndy said:
Yea i understand what your saying ImpatientFire...
and Alkali im the 3rd tallest person in my whole school so i feel tall :)
No offense, but do you live in Nebraska? North Dakota?

I'm a hair away from 6'2 and I'm not even close to the tallest guys at school.

Hell, the tallest girl at my school (deemed two-story-Torry) is 6'5.

The dude dating her has at least two inches on her.

North Hollywood? Come out to Orange County my star-studded friend :rockon:
 

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Well I'm 6"1 which I guess, puts me 3 inches taller than average for my age group. but no way lanky. Last night I was at the club - I can only remember 10 guys out of the 100 blokes in there that were taller than me - and made 8 dancefloor approaches.
I usually touch the girl on the arm but none were receptive to me, now I have rather a masculine face in my opinion although I might be wrong - slightly largish nose, dominant but handsome eyebrows and slightly long chin, I wonder if girls aren't receptive to masculine faces.
It's almost as if i'm some kind of unstable threat or they might percieve me to be the shag a bird a day kind just becuase of how I appear.

My attitude is that grils like a challenging man so if they don't respond I tell them - you can't handle a handsome bloke?

Also, for the guys who think that being short means you can't get a girl, from my experience last night, I saw 3 guys no more than 5"7 pulling 3 hot birds.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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