"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Height Sexy?

HandyAndy

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OK i have 2 questions.
1: Is height(to some extent, not like 7'3') considered sexy?

2: Im 15, and im 6'2", I always get stuff from girls at school saying, " Wow hes tall!" Or "Wow your tall" What can i say to get a positive response out of these women? I usually just say " Yea i know" Obviously its not the best comeback, any CnF responses that create attraction?:up: :cheer:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Nighthawk

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1. Height is a huge factor to many if not most women. It's blatantly unfair and superficial, but a solid fact. Enjoy your huge advantage.

2. 'No shit sherlock.'

'No. It's an illuuusion' (magicians voice)

'And I got a cute ass too'

'I used to be even taller! 'Really?' No, dumbass.'
etc
 

War Against Betaism

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After they make a comment, look away from them almost as if you were ****y and then utter out "yeah".
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Eugene123

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yeah its considered sexy but. why the **** cares. women only care about personality.
 

Soupar

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Eugene123 said:
yeah its considered sexy but. why the **** cares. women only care about personality.
I'll go ahead and guess that you're a manlet
 

ImpatientFire

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Yea I'm tall as well (6' 6") and I get the same thing from the ladies. Height is very sexy to women so consider yourself lucky. In experiments done by scientists in Europe women seemed to prefer taller guys to their wealthier shorter counterparts. So it seems like you have an advantage. Don't let it run to your head though 'cos you'll still need charm and confidence to attract a lady.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Alkali

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HandyAndy said:
Yea i understand what your saying ImpatientFire...
and Alkali im the 3rd tallest person in my whole school so i feel tall :)
No offense, but do you live in Nebraska? North Dakota?

I'm a hair away from 6'2 and I'm not even close to the tallest guys at school.

Hell, the tallest girl at my school (deemed two-story-Torry) is 6'5.

The dude dating her has at least two inches on her.

North Hollywood? Come out to Orange County my star-studded friend :rockon:
 

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Well I'm 6"1 which I guess, puts me 3 inches taller than average for my age group. but no way lanky. Last night I was at the club - I can only remember 10 guys out of the 100 blokes in there that were taller than me - and made 8 dancefloor approaches.
I usually touch the girl on the arm but none were receptive to me, now I have rather a masculine face in my opinion although I might be wrong - slightly largish nose, dominant but handsome eyebrows and slightly long chin, I wonder if girls aren't receptive to masculine faces.
It's almost as if i'm some kind of unstable threat or they might percieve me to be the shag a bird a day kind just becuase of how I appear.

My attitude is that grils like a challenging man so if they don't respond I tell them - you can't handle a handsome bloke?

Also, for the guys who think that being short means you can't get a girl, from my experience last night, I saw 3 guys no more than 5"7 pulling 3 hot birds.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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