Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Height Sexy?

HandyAndy

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OK i have 2 questions.
1: Is height(to some extent, not like 7'3') considered sexy?

2: Im 15, and im 6'2", I always get stuff from girls at school saying, " Wow hes tall!" Or "Wow your tall" What can i say to get a positive response out of these women? I usually just say " Yea i know" Obviously its not the best comeback, any CnF responses that create attraction?:up: :cheer:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Nighthawk

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1. Height is a huge factor to many if not most women. It's blatantly unfair and superficial, but a solid fact. Enjoy your huge advantage.

2. 'No shit sherlock.'

'No. It's an illuuusion' (magicians voice)

'And I got a cute ass too'

'I used to be even taller! 'Really?' No, dumbass.'
etc
 

War Against Betaism

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After they make a comment, look away from them almost as if you were ****y and then utter out "yeah".
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Eugene123

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yeah its considered sexy but. why the **** cares. women only care about personality.
 

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Eugene123 said:
yeah its considered sexy but. why the **** cares. women only care about personality.
I'll go ahead and guess that you're a manlet
 

ImpatientFire

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Yea I'm tall as well (6' 6") and I get the same thing from the ladies. Height is very sexy to women so consider yourself lucky. In experiments done by scientists in Europe women seemed to prefer taller guys to their wealthier shorter counterparts. So it seems like you have an advantage. Don't let it run to your head though 'cos you'll still need charm and confidence to attract a lady.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Alkali

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HandyAndy said:
Yea i understand what your saying ImpatientFire...
and Alkali im the 3rd tallest person in my whole school so i feel tall :)
No offense, but do you live in Nebraska? North Dakota?

I'm a hair away from 6'2 and I'm not even close to the tallest guys at school.

Hell, the tallest girl at my school (deemed two-story-Torry) is 6'5.

The dude dating her has at least two inches on her.

North Hollywood? Come out to Orange County my star-studded friend :rockon:
 

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Well I'm 6"1 which I guess, puts me 3 inches taller than average for my age group. but no way lanky. Last night I was at the club - I can only remember 10 guys out of the 100 blokes in there that were taller than me - and made 8 dancefloor approaches.
I usually touch the girl on the arm but none were receptive to me, now I have rather a masculine face in my opinion although I might be wrong - slightly largish nose, dominant but handsome eyebrows and slightly long chin, I wonder if girls aren't receptive to masculine faces.
It's almost as if i'm some kind of unstable threat or they might percieve me to be the shag a bird a day kind just becuase of how I appear.

My attitude is that grils like a challenging man so if they don't respond I tell them - you can't handle a handsome bloke?

Also, for the guys who think that being short means you can't get a girl, from my experience last night, I saw 3 guys no more than 5"7 pulling 3 hot birds.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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