"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Height Sexy?

HandyAndy

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OK i have 2 questions.
1: Is height(to some extent, not like 7'3') considered sexy?

2: Im 15, and im 6'2", I always get stuff from girls at school saying, " Wow hes tall!" Or "Wow your tall" What can i say to get a positive response out of these women? I usually just say " Yea i know" Obviously its not the best comeback, any CnF responses that create attraction?:up: :cheer:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Nighthawk

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1. Height is a huge factor to many if not most women. It's blatantly unfair and superficial, but a solid fact. Enjoy your huge advantage.

2. 'No shit sherlock.'

'No. It's an illuuusion' (magicians voice)

'And I got a cute ass too'

'I used to be even taller! 'Really?' No, dumbass.'
etc
 

War Against Betaism

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After they make a comment, look away from them almost as if you were ****y and then utter out "yeah".
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Eugene123

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yeah its considered sexy but. why the **** cares. women only care about personality.
 

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Eugene123 said:
yeah its considered sexy but. why the **** cares. women only care about personality.
I'll go ahead and guess that you're a manlet
 

ImpatientFire

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Yea I'm tall as well (6' 6") and I get the same thing from the ladies. Height is very sexy to women so consider yourself lucky. In experiments done by scientists in Europe women seemed to prefer taller guys to their wealthier shorter counterparts. So it seems like you have an advantage. Don't let it run to your head though 'cos you'll still need charm and confidence to attract a lady.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Alkali

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HandyAndy said:
Yea i understand what your saying ImpatientFire...
and Alkali im the 3rd tallest person in my whole school so i feel tall :)
No offense, but do you live in Nebraska? North Dakota?

I'm a hair away from 6'2 and I'm not even close to the tallest guys at school.

Hell, the tallest girl at my school (deemed two-story-Torry) is 6'5.

The dude dating her has at least two inches on her.

North Hollywood? Come out to Orange County my star-studded friend :rockon:
 

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Well I'm 6"1 which I guess, puts me 3 inches taller than average for my age group. but no way lanky. Last night I was at the club - I can only remember 10 guys out of the 100 blokes in there that were taller than me - and made 8 dancefloor approaches.
I usually touch the girl on the arm but none were receptive to me, now I have rather a masculine face in my opinion although I might be wrong - slightly largish nose, dominant but handsome eyebrows and slightly long chin, I wonder if girls aren't receptive to masculine faces.
It's almost as if i'm some kind of unstable threat or they might percieve me to be the shag a bird a day kind just becuase of how I appear.

My attitude is that grils like a challenging man so if they don't respond I tell them - you can't handle a handsome bloke?

Also, for the guys who think that being short means you can't get a girl, from my experience last night, I saw 3 guys no more than 5"7 pulling 3 hot birds.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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