"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Height doesn’t matter

El Payaso

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Sorry but height matters. Just look at the average female dating profile.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Height and race matter because they follow the LMS rule of initial attraction:

Looks, MONEY, Status. The most important factors in your male SMV.

Hot women approaching the wall usually seek men with lower SMV for the security. Women know a guy with high SMV (LMS) will dump her after she hits the wall lol.

Don't get why guys get so excited about seeing a HOT woman with a loser. It happens for the same reason you see attractive guys with FAT women. They do it for the security. They are lazy so they take the low hanging fruit. Did the loser with the HOT girlfriend get lucky? Sure. That's the whole point lol.
 

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Sorry but height matters. Just look at the average female dating profile.
With all due respect, many profiles say “no hookups” when in fact they go on first dates and get pounded hard.
 

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Folks here who are 5' 10" saying that being them "short" is surmountable are speaking from a totally different frame of reference.
5'10 is not short lol
I think I'm the only one in this thread who said he was 5'10", so let me make this clear:
5'10 is average height. I don't feel like I'm short. But I'm not tall either. Actually, when I walk around with good posture and all, I feel tall. Until some 6'5" mofo comes up and stands next to me lol.

I don't feel like my height hurts me any. But I don't feel like it really helps me either, it's just average. Just like I've always figured my looks are average. My looks don't hurt me, girls will usually give me a chance. But by the same token, my looks don't do the work for me either.
5'10" is average, but SoSuave is always stressing that a guy should be above average. Not much you can do about your height though. Maybe wear thicker socks :rolleyes:

Some of you that don't think height matters need to put on some elevator shoes and approach women then come back and let us know the results.
Elevator shoes don't tell the whole story though. Tall guys will have a longer torso, a longer abdominal area, etc. I think that is part of what women like about tall guys. I have a friend who is very tall, and that's something he has working for him. But he has other issues that I don't have to deal with, so things can even out sometimes. If you're tall, count your blessings that you have that advantage. If not, don't worry about it, and focus on what you can improve.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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All the hottest chicks I ever seen were with average height guys, 99 percent of the time
 

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Height matters. It's always the non-chads who believe otherwise. A manlet can never be a chad.
Manlet is usually defined as a guy under 6 feet. 5’11” has been jokingly referred to as “King of the Manlets.”

But, a 5’8” to 5’11” guy with a very hot face could still be a Chad. Maybe not a “textbook” Chad per se, but effectively a Chad for all intents and purposes.
 

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I see tons of short guys every day absolutely tearing it up with hot women. If anything, there are more short guys with hot women than tall guys.

I have now also fully accept that race doesn’t matter (took me a while lol).
It takes a strong confident guy to date a taller woman--and women know it. My last LTR gf was 6'0 and loved to wear heels. I'm 5'8. She towers over a lot of guys so it was not an issue. I had a friend in college who was maybe 5'5-5'6, decent looking and really funny guy, and he had good luck getting laid with women in the 5'0-5'5 range which is probably more than 50%.

Don't let your height stop you. Google short celebrities and tell me it stops them. Tom Cruise, Sly Stallone, Bruno Mars, Kevin Hart (5'2!!!), Mark Whalberg, Bon Jovi--all 5'8 or (some way) under.

Read: http://www.rebelcircus.com/blog/shouldnt-shy-away-dating-men-shorter/
 
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Manlet is usually defined as a guy under 6 feet. 5’11” has been jokingly referred to as “King of the Manlets.”

But, a 5’8” to 5’11” guy with a very hot face could still be a Chad. Maybe not a “textbook” Chad per se, but effectively a Chad for all intents and purposes.
I hope your not serious? Very few women will turn down a guy for being 5'11 but a lot of women won't touch a 5'8 guy. I am 6'0, but I think that anyone that is a legit 5'10 can be a Chad.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I hope your not serious? Very few women will turn down a guy for being 5'11 but a lot of women won't touch a 5'8 guy. I am 6'0, but I think that anyone that is a legit 5'10 can be a Chad.
Yeah I’m 6’3 and I’ve asked girls to guess my height...many go with 5’10. If they’re 5’4 or shorter they have no idea. And the 6’0 cutoff is totally psychological and arbitrary.
 

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The male average height in Europe is 5'10" if memory serves me correctly.

The idea that it's "short" is ridiculous, and is propagated mostly by incredibly shallow women who consider 6'7" to be "average" height.

Also, this whole "manlet" thing is laughable and smacks of BS. Joe Frazier was 5'10" and he could beat the s*** out of men who were 6'4" and stacked. Go call him a "manlet", lol...

I'd consider anyone taller than that average "quite tall" and anyone over 6'0" "tall". If you're over 6'4" you're "very tall" in my book.

Most girls have said to me that they just prefer a guy taller than themselves, but obviously you can't really trust anything straight from the horse's mouth.
 
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I’m 6’1. I’d give my left nut to be 5’7 and jacked. Short guys don’t need to work near as hard to built
 

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Height is part of the equation just like everything else (money, status, bf%, lean muscle, social acumen, confidence, etc), and I say that as probably the shortest member of this forum.

If life has dealt you unfortunate cards (you're a race that's socially unattractive compared to others during your time, or you're a midget like me), it's best you start accepting it and finding ways around it to start f*cking the kinds of chicks you wanna f*ck.

Don't forget one of the golden rules: context is everything. As humans, if it wasn't for our intelligence, we'd have died out to the beasts that preyed upon us. This means, don't try to fight the saber-toothed tiger with your bare hands. You already know you're going to lose. Instead, learn how to build spears and arrows.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I’m 6’1. I’d give my left nut to be 5’7 and jacked. Short guys don’t need to work near as hard to built
The grass is always greener.
 

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Women regularly comment on my height, I actually wish I was taller, like 6’4, tall people are more imposing.
 
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