You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
With all due respect, many profiles say “no hookups” when in fact they go on first dates and get pounded hard.Sorry but height matters. Just look at the average female dating profile.
Folks here who are 5' 10" saying that being them "short" is surmountable are speaking from a totally different frame of reference.
I think I'm the only one in this thread who said he was 5'10", so let me make this clear:5'10 is not short lol
Elevator shoes don't tell the whole story though. Tall guys will have a longer torso, a longer abdominal area, etc. I think that is part of what women like about tall guys. I have a friend who is very tall, and that's something he has working for him. But he has other issues that I don't have to deal with, so things can even out sometimes. If you're tall, count your blessings that you have that advantage. If not, don't worry about it, and focus on what you can improve.Some of you that don't think height matters need to put on some elevator shoes and approach women then come back and let us know the results.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
They have to make themselves feel better somehow.Height matters. It's always the non-chads who believe otherwise. A manlet can never be a chad.
Manlet is usually defined as a guy under 6 feet. 5’11” has been jokingly referred to as “King of the Manlets.”Height matters. It's always the non-chads who believe otherwise. A manlet can never be a chad.
It takes a strong confident guy to date a taller woman--and women know it. My last LTR gf was 6'0 and loved to wear heels. I'm 5'8. She towers over a lot of guys so it was not an issue. I had a friend in college who was maybe 5'5-5'6, decent looking and really funny guy, and he had good luck getting laid with women in the 5'0-5'5 range which is probably more than 50%.I see tons of short guys every day absolutely tearing it up with hot women. If anything, there are more short guys with hot women than tall guys.
I have now also fully accept that race doesn’t matter (took me a while lol).
I hope your not serious? Very few women will turn down a guy for being 5'11 but a lot of women won't touch a 5'8 guy. I am 6'0, but I think that anyone that is a legit 5'10 can be a Chad.Manlet is usually defined as a guy under 6 feet. 5’11” has been jokingly referred to as “King of the Manlets.”
But, a 5’8” to 5’11” guy with a very hot face could still be a Chad. Maybe not a “textbook” Chad per se, but effectively a Chad for all intents and purposes.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Yeah I’m 6’3 and I’ve asked girls to guess my height...many go with 5’10. If they’re 5’4 or shorter they have no idea. And the 6’0 cutoff is totally psychological and arbitrary.I hope your not serious? Very few women will turn down a guy for being 5'11 but a lot of women won't touch a 5'8 guy. I am 6'0, but I think that anyone that is a legit 5'10 can be a Chad.
Mike Tyson was/is 5'10. Yeah, a real "Manlet" haha.I hope your not serious? Very few women will turn down a guy for being 5'11 but a lot of women won't touch a 5'8 guy. I am 6'0, but I think that anyone that is a legit 5'10 can be a Chad.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
The grass is always greener.I’m 6’1. I’d give my left nut to be 5’7 and jacked. Short guys don’t need to work near as hard to built