"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Heh, funny # close this afternoon.

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I sat down with a couple girls at lunch today, just the usual "hey what's up, mind if I join you guys" type of thing. Anyway, I was pretty good at keeping things sexual and interesting with the conversation... once we were done I just said "give me your number, I might need some entertainment again tomorrow at lunch". Anyway, I grab the phone, type in her name and pass it to her for the number (I like doing this fyi, it tells them that I know their name and that they're going to have to do the work - ie: punch in the number)... she looks at it and laughs out loud cause I put her down as 'Amanda McNiceAss'.

I thought that was a decent approach to number closing and might be something that you might want to try/have tried. Her reaction seemed pretty positive.

Any advice? Did I come off as being too strong or too into her maybe?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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it would actually take me a while to type all that in, probably :S
 
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Kwello said:
... she looks at it and laughs out loud cause I put her down as 'Amanda McNiceAss'.
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LOL. I really like that part.

Did you build enough rapport with her? Otherwise she might flake on you, and you wouldn't be able to continue with the sarge.
 
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LOL. I really like that part.

Did you build enough rapport with her? Otherwise she might flake on you, and you wouldn't be able to continue with the sarge.
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Nah I definitely had built it up. I ate lunch there with them for like 15 minutes or so... it felt pretty good to do it.
 
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fundates_2k7 said:
what if i pulled ur pants down and ripped ur butthole?
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LOL :crackup: but still.

u did fine LOL she prob diggs you more coz of ur courage/easy goingness LOLOLOLOL
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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