"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Heh, funny # close this afternoon.

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I sat down with a couple girls at lunch today, just the usual "hey what's up, mind if I join you guys" type of thing. Anyway, I was pretty good at keeping things sexual and interesting with the conversation... once we were done I just said "give me your number, I might need some entertainment again tomorrow at lunch". Anyway, I grab the phone, type in her name and pass it to her for the number (I like doing this fyi, it tells them that I know their name and that they're going to have to do the work - ie: punch in the number)... she looks at it and laughs out loud cause I put her down as 'Amanda McNiceAss'.

I thought that was a decent approach to number closing and might be something that you might want to try/have tried. Her reaction seemed pretty positive.

Any advice? Did I come off as being too strong or too into her maybe?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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wow

it would actually take me a while to type all that in, probably :S
 

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Kwello said:
... she looks at it and laughs out loud cause I put her down as 'Amanda McNiceAss'.
LOL. I really like that part.

Did you build enough rapport with her? Otherwise she might flake on you, and you wouldn't be able to continue with the sarge.
 

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Bat said:
LOL. I really like that part.

Did you build enough rapport with her? Otherwise she might flake on you, and you wouldn't be able to continue with the sarge.
Nah I definitely had built it up. I ate lunch there with them for like 15 minutes or so... it felt pretty good to do it.
 

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fundates_2k7 said:
what if i pulled ur pants down and ripped ur butthole?
LOL :crackup: but still.

u did fine LOL she prob diggs you more coz of ur courage/easy goingness LOLOLOLOL
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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