"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Heh, funny # close this afternoon.

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I sat down with a couple girls at lunch today, just the usual "hey what's up, mind if I join you guys" type of thing. Anyway, I was pretty good at keeping things sexual and interesting with the conversation... once we were done I just said "give me your number, I might need some entertainment again tomorrow at lunch". Anyway, I grab the phone, type in her name and pass it to her for the number (I like doing this fyi, it tells them that I know their name and that they're going to have to do the work - ie: punch in the number)... she looks at it and laughs out loud cause I put her down as 'Amanda McNiceAss'.

I thought that was a decent approach to number closing and might be something that you might want to try/have tried. Her reaction seemed pretty positive.

Any advice? Did I come off as being too strong or too into her maybe?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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wow

it would actually take me a while to type all that in, probably :S
 

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Kwello said:
... she looks at it and laughs out loud cause I put her down as 'Amanda McNiceAss'.
LOL. I really like that part.

Did you build enough rapport with her? Otherwise she might flake on you, and you wouldn't be able to continue with the sarge.
 

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Bat said:
LOL. I really like that part.

Did you build enough rapport with her? Otherwise she might flake on you, and you wouldn't be able to continue with the sarge.
Nah I definitely had built it up. I ate lunch there with them for like 15 minutes or so... it felt pretty good to do it.
 

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fundates_2k7 said:
what if i pulled ur pants down and ripped ur butthole?
LOL :crackup: but still.

u did fine LOL she prob diggs you more coz of ur courage/easy goingness LOLOLOLOL
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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