"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Heavy metal jewelry and accessories
- Thread starter Suspens
- Start date
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
AttackFormation
Master Don Juan
AttackFormation
Master Don Juan
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
I play D&D, play magic the gathering, listen to punk music & country, play video games, and other nerdy things. I don't care what others think and neither should you.
- comic_relief
backseatjuan
Banned
Negatively.Suspens said:
Maximum you want a gold chain, with gold cross, gold wrist bracelent, nice watch, maybe a ring or two, but everything has to be genuine gold.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Tictac
Banned
When I was married, I wore a wedding ring.
I have a boar's tusk (from one I killed hunting years ago) that I wear about once every other year.
Nothing else.
I have no idea what Snoop Dog wears so Google came up with:Suspens said:
https://www.google.co.uk/search?q=s...ih=615#safe=off&tbm=isch&q=snoop+dogg+fashion
I guess if someone is into the urban hip hop culture that will do fine. Personally I am not into hip hop or black culture so that is not me. The only bits that appeal of him is some of the sporty apparel.
Wearing accessories like watches, bracelets, chains, ring, etc all help with creating a style that will pull the chicks. I have no idea what accessories a heavy metal dude will sport because that is not my following.
Some of the clothing are a bit bigger then his frame. Baggy is the hip hop fashion but baggy don't make good style.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Everything you wear has to be congruent with who you are as a person. It's no good going around wearing heavy metal gear if you are not into that scene. You will not feel comfortable and it will attract the wrong kind of chick.Suspens said:
Really before embarking on accessories you need to wear clothing that fits with your identity. If you are a businessman dress like a businessman and worry about accessories like a watch at a later date. If you are not into a particular scene but have an interest in it then start wearing that $hit, it will be a start. So if you have yet to get into B*D*S*M but have a liking towards it then start to become involved in that field by wearing leather clothing and $hit.
My identity is that of sportsman, I have always partook in sports. So I usually (away from work) roll in sneakers, tracksuit pants, caps, hoody etc. I get the fitting, color combinations, etc 'right' so majority of 8+ women and others I encounter do a double take. I have no problems getting into venues where the dress policy is 'smart' because I am better dressed then majority of their patrons.
So before the accessories get the other basics right.