"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Heavy metal jewelry and accessories

Opinions?

  • Cheesy and cliche.

    Votes: 4 50.0%
  • Not for mature folks. Your youth days are gone.

    Votes: 2 25.0%
  • Badass and cool. Age is irrelevant.

    Votes: 2 25.0%

  • Total voters
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Suspens

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'Badass' skull bracelets, spike leather wristbands etc. How do they affect your image and value? Do they make you look like a rageful emo teenage boy?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Why don't you show us how you look so we can make a good call for your appearance? it ain't gonna fit on Yoda as much as it'll fit on a Darth Maul.
 

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Ok, so you look like a piece of sh!t. I think they would complement the image you convey.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Regardless of the look you are going for, the more accessories you got the more cooler you'll be. Age is not an issue but you must be confident and comfortable with it.
 

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do what you want, not what other people think about what you do.

I play D&D, play magic the gathering, listen to punk music & country, play video games, and other nerdy things. I don't care what others think and neither should you.

- comic_relief
 

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Suspens said:
'Badass' skull bracelets, spike leather wristbands etc. How do they affect your image and value? Do they make you look like a rageful emo teenage boy?
They're great in any part of the world that's 15 years behind the times!
 

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Suspens said:
'Badass' skull bracelets, spike leather wristbands etc. How do they affect your image and value? Do they make you look like a rageful emo teenage boy?
Negatively.


Maximum you want a gold chain, with gold cross, gold wrist bracelent, nice watch, maybe a ring or two, but everything has to be genuine gold.
 

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Show me a guy who truly doesn't care what anyone thinks about him and I'll show you a guy locked up in solitary in a maximum security prison.

There is a balance to everything ;)
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I have a very good watch.

When I was married, I wore a wedding ring.

I have a boar's tusk (from one I killed hunting years ago) that I wear about once every other year.

Nothing else.
 

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mangotot said:
Regardless of the look you are going for, the more accessories you got the more cooler you'll be.
Oh as cool as snoop dog?
 

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I wear a white gold chain necklace and a good mechanical swiss watch, nothing else. And i get compliments often
The key is to not look too flashy like some of the rap singers.
 

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Suspens said:
Oh as cool as snoop dog?
I have no idea what Snoop Dog wears so Google came up with:

https://www.google.co.uk/search?q=s...ih=615#safe=off&tbm=isch&q=snoop+dogg+fashion

I guess if someone is into the urban hip hop culture that will do fine. Personally I am not into hip hop or black culture so that is not me. The only bits that appeal of him is some of the sporty apparel.
Wearing accessories like watches, bracelets, chains, ring, etc all help with creating a style that will pull the chicks. I have no idea what accessories a heavy metal dude will sport because that is not my following.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Suspens said:
'Badass' skull bracelets, spike leather wristbands etc. How do they affect your image and value? Do they make you look like a rageful emo teenage boy?
Everything you wear has to be congruent with who you are as a person. It's no good going around wearing heavy metal gear if you are not into that scene. You will not feel comfortable and it will attract the wrong kind of chick.

Really before embarking on accessories you need to wear clothing that fits with your identity. If you are a businessman dress like a businessman and worry about accessories like a watch at a later date. If you are not into a particular scene but have an interest in it then start wearing that $hit, it will be a start. So if you have yet to get into B*D*S*M but have a liking towards it then start to become involved in that field by wearing leather clothing and $hit.

My identity is that of sportsman, I have always partook in sports. So I usually (away from work) roll in sneakers, tracksuit pants, caps, hoody etc. I get the fitting, color combinations, etc 'right' so majority of 8+ women and others I encounter do a double take. I have no problems getting into venues where the dress policy is 'smart' because I am better dressed then majority of their patrons.

So before the accessories get the other basics right.
 
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