"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Heavy metal jewelry and accessories

Opinions?

  • Cheesy and cliche.

    Votes: 4 50.0%
  • Not for mature folks. Your youth days are gone.

    Votes: 2 25.0%
  • Badass and cool. Age is irrelevant.

    Votes: 2 25.0%

  • Total voters
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Suspens

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'Badass' skull bracelets, spike leather wristbands etc. How do they affect your image and value? Do they make you look like a rageful emo teenage boy?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Why don't you show us how you look so we can make a good call for your appearance? it ain't gonna fit on Yoda as much as it'll fit on a Darth Maul.
 

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Ok, so you look like a piece of sh!t. I think they would complement the image you convey.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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mangotot

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Regardless of the look you are going for, the more accessories you got the more cooler you'll be. Age is not an issue but you must be confident and comfortable with it.
 

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do what you want, not what other people think about what you do.

I play D&D, play magic the gathering, listen to punk music & country, play video games, and other nerdy things. I don't care what others think and neither should you.

- comic_relief
 

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Suspens said:
'Badass' skull bracelets, spike leather wristbands etc. How do they affect your image and value? Do they make you look like a rageful emo teenage boy?
They're great in any part of the world that's 15 years behind the times!
 

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Suspens said:
'Badass' skull bracelets, spike leather wristbands etc. How do they affect your image and value? Do they make you look like a rageful emo teenage boy?
Negatively.


Maximum you want a gold chain, with gold cross, gold wrist bracelent, nice watch, maybe a ring or two, but everything has to be genuine gold.
 

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Show me a guy who truly doesn't care what anyone thinks about him and I'll show you a guy locked up in solitary in a maximum security prison.

There is a balance to everything ;)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I have a very good watch.

When I was married, I wore a wedding ring.

I have a boar's tusk (from one I killed hunting years ago) that I wear about once every other year.

Nothing else.
 

Suspens

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mangotot said:
Regardless of the look you are going for, the more accessories you got the more cooler you'll be.
Oh as cool as snoop dog?
 

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I wear a white gold chain necklace and a good mechanical swiss watch, nothing else. And i get compliments often
The key is to not look too flashy like some of the rap singers.
 

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Suspens said:
Oh as cool as snoop dog?
I have no idea what Snoop Dog wears so Google came up with:

https://www.google.co.uk/search?q=s...ih=615#safe=off&tbm=isch&q=snoop+dogg+fashion

I guess if someone is into the urban hip hop culture that will do fine. Personally I am not into hip hop or black culture so that is not me. The only bits that appeal of him is some of the sporty apparel.
Wearing accessories like watches, bracelets, chains, ring, etc all help with creating a style that will pull the chicks. I have no idea what accessories a heavy metal dude will sport because that is not my following.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Suspens said:
'Badass' skull bracelets, spike leather wristbands etc. How do they affect your image and value? Do they make you look like a rageful emo teenage boy?
Everything you wear has to be congruent with who you are as a person. It's no good going around wearing heavy metal gear if you are not into that scene. You will not feel comfortable and it will attract the wrong kind of chick.

Really before embarking on accessories you need to wear clothing that fits with your identity. If you are a businessman dress like a businessman and worry about accessories like a watch at a later date. If you are not into a particular scene but have an interest in it then start wearing that $hit, it will be a start. So if you have yet to get into B*D*S*M but have a liking towards it then start to become involved in that field by wearing leather clothing and $hit.

My identity is that of sportsman, I have always partook in sports. So I usually (away from work) roll in sneakers, tracksuit pants, caps, hoody etc. I get the fitting, color combinations, etc 'right' so majority of 8+ women and others I encounter do a double take. I have no problems getting into venues where the dress policy is 'smart' because I am better dressed then majority of their patrons.

So before the accessories get the other basics right.
 
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