"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Heavy metal jewelry and accessories
- Thread starter Suspens
- Start date
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
AttackFormation
Master Don Juan
AttackFormation
Master Don Juan
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
I play D&D, play magic the gathering, listen to punk music & country, play video games, and other nerdy things. I don't care what others think and neither should you.
- comic_relief
backseatjuan
Banned
Negatively.Suspens said:
Maximum you want a gold chain, with gold cross, gold wrist bracelent, nice watch, maybe a ring or two, but everything has to be genuine gold.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Tictac
Banned
When I was married, I wore a wedding ring.
I have a boar's tusk (from one I killed hunting years ago) that I wear about once every other year.
Nothing else.
I have no idea what Snoop Dog wears so Google came up with:Suspens said:
https://www.google.co.uk/search?q=s...ih=615#safe=off&tbm=isch&q=snoop+dogg+fashion
I guess if someone is into the urban hip hop culture that will do fine. Personally I am not into hip hop or black culture so that is not me. The only bits that appeal of him is some of the sporty apparel.
Wearing accessories like watches, bracelets, chains, ring, etc all help with creating a style that will pull the chicks. I have no idea what accessories a heavy metal dude will sport because that is not my following.
Some of the clothing are a bit bigger then his frame. Baggy is the hip hop fashion but baggy don't make good style.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Everything you wear has to be congruent with who you are as a person. It's no good going around wearing heavy metal gear if you are not into that scene. You will not feel comfortable and it will attract the wrong kind of chick.Suspens said:
Really before embarking on accessories you need to wear clothing that fits with your identity. If you are a businessman dress like a businessman and worry about accessories like a watch at a later date. If you are not into a particular scene but have an interest in it then start wearing that $hit, it will be a start. So if you have yet to get into B*D*S*M but have a liking towards it then start to become involved in that field by wearing leather clothing and $hit.
My identity is that of sportsman, I have always partook in sports. So I usually (away from work) roll in sneakers, tracksuit pants, caps, hoody etc. I get the fitting, color combinations, etc 'right' so majority of 8+ women and others I encounter do a double take. I have no problems getting into venues where the dress policy is 'smart' because I am better dressed then majority of their patrons.
So before the accessories get the other basics right.