"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Heard a Rip, in shoulder

Hockey Playa

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Was doing incline bench press with dumbells. Was having an awesome workout, set a new personal best on BP before that. I was on my 3rd set, struggling with my last rep...my right shoulder lost control and the weight went behind my head, i tried to stabilize it and heard a huge rip in my shoulder. All i could think of was, OMFG im done for the summer, my shoulders fu*ked. I was so scared. The funny thing is i have almost completely normal range of motion. There is a slight pain if i move it in some directions. I cant even ice it, because its my rotator cuff, internal muscle. Im so scared im going to wake up, and not be able to move it. Am i over reacting? could it just been a very bad stretch? I just find it weird that i heard that rip, and still have normal range of motion
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Kev07

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If you go to a gym, have you tried asking some of the people who work there?

the gym i go to has a massage therapist and injury therapist and all that good stuff.

doesn't sound good to me, but i've never heard a rip in any of my muscles before, so i'm not too sure
 

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Be careful with it... I dislocated my collar bone with a nice little "rip" and it's not been the same since. Best bet is to go and see a doc (although there isn't much that they can do) to find out what happened.

Oh, and never dislocate your collar bone... tearing ligaments = total agony.
 

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Is their a difference between tearing ligaments, and straining them? Im pretty sure i didnt tear anything, cause im not into absolute pain. Im almost 100 % sure its rotator cuff related. Certain directions are a sharp pain, when i move there. I Really hope this goes away :(
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I was @ Martial arts training on Monday- Im abit of beginner, been going for a month, was busy sparring and as I came round with a right hook my right shoulder muscle felt like it popped out of place and I fell to the ground and felt another pull (think it popped back into position).

What did I do? How do I know it popped back?

Well, that night I struggled to sleep I wont lie I couldnt sleep infact so the next day went to see a doctor, described what I just told you, he sent me for X-RAYS, nothing was broken thank fully. Gave me anti-inflamattories and since Monday gradually each day I feel less and less pain. I do feel a slight pull in my shoulder at the moment when I move it in certain positions, the doctor told me I bruised my muscle so what I can recommend is to go for x-rays and see a doctor.
 
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