"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Heard a Rip, in shoulder

Hockey Playa

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Was doing incline bench press with dumbells. Was having an awesome workout, set a new personal best on BP before that. I was on my 3rd set, struggling with my last rep...my right shoulder lost control and the weight went behind my head, i tried to stabilize it and heard a huge rip in my shoulder. All i could think of was, OMFG im done for the summer, my shoulders fu*ked. I was so scared. The funny thing is i have almost completely normal range of motion. There is a slight pain if i move it in some directions. I cant even ice it, because its my rotator cuff, internal muscle. Im so scared im going to wake up, and not be able to move it. Am i over reacting? could it just been a very bad stretch? I just find it weird that i heard that rip, and still have normal range of motion
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Kev07

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If you go to a gym, have you tried asking some of the people who work there?

the gym i go to has a massage therapist and injury therapist and all that good stuff.

doesn't sound good to me, but i've never heard a rip in any of my muscles before, so i'm not too sure
 

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Be careful with it... I dislocated my collar bone with a nice little "rip" and it's not been the same since. Best bet is to go and see a doc (although there isn't much that they can do) to find out what happened.

Oh, and never dislocate your collar bone... tearing ligaments = total agony.
 

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Is their a difference between tearing ligaments, and straining them? Im pretty sure i didnt tear anything, cause im not into absolute pain. Im almost 100 % sure its rotator cuff related. Certain directions are a sharp pain, when i move there. I Really hope this goes away :(
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I was @ Martial arts training on Monday- Im abit of beginner, been going for a month, was busy sparring and as I came round with a right hook my right shoulder muscle felt like it popped out of place and I fell to the ground and felt another pull (think it popped back into position).

What did I do? How do I know it popped back?

Well, that night I struggled to sleep I wont lie I couldnt sleep infact so the next day went to see a doctor, described what I just told you, he sent me for X-RAYS, nothing was broken thank fully. Gave me anti-inflamattories and since Monday gradually each day I feel less and less pain. I do feel a slight pull in my shoulder at the moment when I move it in certain positions, the doctor told me I bruised my muscle so what I can recommend is to go for x-rays and see a doctor.
 
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