"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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"Healthy" from older woman?

Eternal_water

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By older women I mean those over the age of 50.

If an older women keeps telling you that you are looking healthy is that some sort of way of saying I fancy you and if I was 25 years younger I would consider banging you. But considering my age it would be wrong to openly say so and so will give a non sexual compliment.

I ask as there is a woman I know probably about 55ish who keeps on telling me I'm looking healthy. She is actually very well preserved and still just on the edge of being a yes, another year or 2 and she'll be a no but atm she is just just about a yes.

I'm not actually looking to screw this woman (in fact I am far more interested in her hot daughter) I'm merely curious as to why she keeps using this word healthy
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Neon Owl

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Are you in good shape? Do you work out?

It's probably her non-slutty way of saying she wants your c0ck ;)
 

Eternal_water

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Yes I get loads of excercise from playing sports every week and I do weight lifting at the gym, so I'm in good shape
 

Sonny Knight

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Eternal_water so ****kface you feel the need waste bandwidth with this bullsh!t
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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plate's_empty

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Sonny Knight said:
Eternal_water so ****kface you feel the need waste bandwidth with this bullsh!t

Huh?

Also, trying to figure out what word got censored here. haha
 

namismybabe

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could be a few things:

- she thinks you're fit/healthy
- it's a code and/or euphemism for "you look fine, I want to bone you" lol..
 

TheStig

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Since it's coming from a significantly older woman (assuming you're a lot younger than her), I'd probably chalk it up to her admiring the fact that a young person is taking care of himself, and not stuffing his face with big macs, playing video games, and watching TV 24/7. Unlike a lot of people in today's culture.
 
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