"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Heading to bar... question about drinking.

TheLadiesMan

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Ok, going to meet a few women at the bar tonight. I want to stay somewhat on top of my game. My question is...

What's the best way to stay sober, while drinking? Don't tell me not to drink, because beer is delicious. :) Don't want to get "too drunk to fvck", which is what happend to me the last few times.

Any good tips?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Rollo Tomassi

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Pace yourself and stick to low alcohol concentrate drinks such as beer or wine. Beer is generally 5.6% and wine is about 13% depending on the kind. Stay away from shots or hard liquor in ****tails. Tequila and Vodka come in at 35-40% (70-80 proof) alcohol and your game will deteriorate drastically after a few of these. Just as a side note, I only drink lite beer since I don't want the added calories and fat.

Drink water in between drinks (dilution and alcohol is a diuretic so you'll lose water). A good buzz can make your C&F flow, but sh!tface drunk will only send you home with the fat cow at the end of the bar at 2am.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Eat before you go. Blood alcohol level is higher when you hungry. Last time I drank with my buddy I got really fvcked up on two shots of gin, I mean really fvcked up, usually it takes half a bottle for that.


I don't know about you, but gaming while drunk don't work for me, I get stupid and don't usually have limits nor idea when to stop. I just have a coctail or two, something light, that way they at least see me drinking.
 

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Set a limit at 4 beers. Just drink 2 till you're buzzed... then sip on the other two to maintain it.

Adjust accordingly to your tolerance levels.
 

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non-alcoholic beverage in a glass
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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CS_whoamI?

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drink more water, go piss often
that way you will have some alcohol out with your pee and you have a chance to check if you are ok on the way to toilet
 
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