"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Heading to bar... question about drinking.

TheLadiesMan

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Ok, going to meet a few women at the bar tonight. I want to stay somewhat on top of my game. My question is...

What's the best way to stay sober, while drinking? Don't tell me not to drink, because beer is delicious. :) Don't want to get "too drunk to fvck", which is what happend to me the last few times.

Any good tips?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Rollo Tomassi

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Pace yourself and stick to low alcohol concentrate drinks such as beer or wine. Beer is generally 5.6% and wine is about 13% depending on the kind. Stay away from shots or hard liquor in ****tails. Tequila and Vodka come in at 35-40% (70-80 proof) alcohol and your game will deteriorate drastically after a few of these. Just as a side note, I only drink lite beer since I don't want the added calories and fat.

Drink water in between drinks (dilution and alcohol is a diuretic so you'll lose water). A good buzz can make your C&F flow, but sh!tface drunk will only send you home with the fat cow at the end of the bar at 2am.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Eat before you go. Blood alcohol level is higher when you hungry. Last time I drank with my buddy I got really fvcked up on two shots of gin, I mean really fvcked up, usually it takes half a bottle for that.


I don't know about you, but gaming while drunk don't work for me, I get stupid and don't usually have limits nor idea when to stop. I just have a coctail or two, something light, that way they at least see me drinking.
 

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Set a limit at 4 beers. Just drink 2 till you're buzzed... then sip on the other two to maintain it.

Adjust accordingly to your tolerance levels.
 

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non-alcoholic beverage in a glass
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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CS_whoamI?

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drink more water, go piss often
that way you will have some alcohol out with your pee and you have a chance to check if you are ok on the way to toilet
 
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