"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Heading to bar... question about drinking.

TheLadiesMan

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Ok, going to meet a few women at the bar tonight. I want to stay somewhat on top of my game. My question is...

What's the best way to stay sober, while drinking? Don't tell me not to drink, because beer is delicious. :) Don't want to get "too drunk to fvck", which is what happend to me the last few times.

Any good tips?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Rollo Tomassi

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Pace yourself and stick to low alcohol concentrate drinks such as beer or wine. Beer is generally 5.6% and wine is about 13% depending on the kind. Stay away from shots or hard liquor in ****tails. Tequila and Vodka come in at 35-40% (70-80 proof) alcohol and your game will deteriorate drastically after a few of these. Just as a side note, I only drink lite beer since I don't want the added calories and fat.

Drink water in between drinks (dilution and alcohol is a diuretic so you'll lose water). A good buzz can make your C&F flow, but sh!tface drunk will only send you home with the fat cow at the end of the bar at 2am.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Eat before you go. Blood alcohol level is higher when you hungry. Last time I drank with my buddy I got really fvcked up on two shots of gin, I mean really fvcked up, usually it takes half a bottle for that.


I don't know about you, but gaming while drunk don't work for me, I get stupid and don't usually have limits nor idea when to stop. I just have a coctail or two, something light, that way they at least see me drinking.
 

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Set a limit at 4 beers. Just drink 2 till you're buzzed... then sip on the other two to maintain it.

Adjust accordingly to your tolerance levels.
 

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non-alcoholic beverage in a glass
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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CS_whoamI?

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drink more water, go piss often
that way you will have some alcohol out with your pee and you have a chance to check if you are ok on the way to toilet
 
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